[shweedart]

What have you guys tried to spice up your sexytime?
For example, someones thread (I cant remember who, I apologise) about catching his wife masturbating when she thought he was asleep and it turned him on.
I'll give it a go and see what the outcome is

Any more things like that worth trying? My sex life is great but has gotten a bit routiney!
Dont get me wrong he's open to a lot of stuff and has a 'try anything once' attitude but things like saucy undies, lubes and licks and little vibratey attatchments arent really his thing...whereas I love em

[shweedart]

Bill S! Thats who's thread it was

[Melephant]

Well i would suggest anal, but... lol

It's hard to give suggestions as of course i don't know what your sex life is like.. Dirty talk is always good, a bit of bondage (as a test, try pinning his wrists down next time you ride him incase he does't like it).. Being spontaneous, role play, stripping, lap-dancing, the masturbation thing is definitely a good route to go down but after reading the same previous thread, it may be a good idea to give it a go infront of him first, when he's awake, to see if he likes it or not.
My fiance really loves it when i sit on his chest and masturbate, it drives him crazy, especially if i rest my legs on his arms so he can't touch me. And if i'm just a tad too far away for his tongue to reach.. all the better!

Hmm.. There's also alfresco sex, filming yourself (just make sure you always have the tape, no matter how trust-worthy he is), tantric sex is FANTASTIC!!!! And it's also good for if you have trouble orgasming through penetration, or if he is usually too quick for you.

[shweedart]

theres goodens in there
I'll give a list of what we do now; *ahem*
dirty talk
mutual masturbation
bondage sometimes not often...its mainly for foreplay just to tease the poor guy!



Stripping and lapdances sound good but I wouldn't know where to start...music wise...is 'canned heat' by Jamiroquai sexy?...I do know the napoleon dynamite dance y'know haha

[Melephant]

Haha!
Not too familiar with Jamiroquai so i couldn't tell you, ducky.

The way i did it was..

We were lying in bed one night watching tv (note, this is a good thing to try if he's watching sports lol) and i asked him if he wanted a can from the fridge. Of course he said yes. When i came back upstairs i was wearing my black (faux ) silk dressing gown with some sexy lingerie underneath. I grabbed the remote from his hand and threw it on the chair behind me. I put on a CD -i used 'Sitting ontop of the world' by Cream, in my opinion a highly sexual sounding song! Or one to get high to lol- and he sat bolt upright as he realised what i was doing. I slowly untied my robe and dropped it to the floor (you can also use the rope to tie him down with too!) and just went from there. Just think about showing your body off, teasing him, you don't necessarily have to dance, it's more about how you hold yourself. Make sure you keep eye-contact, kinda look at him asthough you're peed off with him lol, but with the tiniest hint of a smile. Main things are, keep your back arched -this of course pushes out your bum and boobs and makes your waist look smaller, let him see you from behind and the front when doing this.
Keep your legs poker straight and resist the urge to smile, or show any expression. Let him know you mean business!
From the strip you can then climb on his lap and grind about, just don't let him touch you

[Steph33]

try asking him what he wants

[Guest]

try asking him what he wants

Now there's an idea.

[shweedart]

Tried and tested many times and each time my answer is 'Er, I dunno'

[Haven]

try asking him what he wants

Since asking him what he wants hasn't worked, ask yourself what you want, then see if he's into it.
He might like it if you let loose and got a little more dominant with him - those "I dunnos" either mean he hasn't fully discovered his sexuality or he has trouble admitting that he'd like it if you took charge. Melephant has a great way to ease into this...

[shweedart]

I shall try