[MiddleAgedMan]

I have a hard to describe feelling in groin, and can be irritable, my wife says she feels nothing (both in 40's). But she is in the stage of indifference to sex. Is this normal for females? or men>

[WildChild]

Personally, I climb the walls or masterbate. I'm lucky if I get it every week or two. Not being horney isn't normal for me, but what it is for someone else is another matter. Has she always been this way?

[StillLearnin]

I get sexually frustrated and irritable. But I don't turn into a jerk. I'm still civilized.
I masturbate to take the edge off. Good news is I haven't had to relieve myself as much lately because of the wonderful changes my wife has made the past month.
When we do make love, or have sex (or f**k when I'm in that kind of mood, which is at least once a week. You know, just enjoy the lustfulness of the experience.), I finally go "aw, now all is right with the world."
Then I can relax and the process starts over.

[Texinator]

Pressure in the testicles that radiates into the rest of the pelvic region. It's not so bad mentally though because it seems my senses are heightened and I get in a REALLY playful mood.

[Hopeless Dork]

Women may feel sexually frustrated if they haven't done it in a few days and have a high drive ... but I've not heard of any that have physical aches and pains etc from no recent orgasm in the way that some men have.

[nightqueen]

I feel disconnected and sad. Physically I feel like I could explode. lol

[amaranthine]

I actually feel good. I don't like having sex more than once every couple of days. The few times that I have, I find that I feel sore and that's just not fun at all.

[WildChild]

I have to stay really busy and active or I get depressed, feeling closed off and antsy.

[Steph33]

We don't do frustrated, if one needs other takes care of. Always. And 95% of the time both want at the same time anyway.

But I remember a conversation we had long ago, my b/f said he felt 1 of 2 ways. Normal horny, that he could deal with. The other more intense with groin and lower back pain with walking being uncomfortable. That kind asturbating was not even really enjoyed, just wanting to be empty to rid himself of actual discomfort.

I'd never let him feel like that again, so I make sure his tubes stay cleared so he never will. I'm just a qualified mechanic keeping him tuned up for best performance and mileage.

When I want him and can't have him, worst is if it's early in the work day and deal with it for 8-10 hours. Thinking about it and rather soggy panties all days is frustrating, distracting, and not really earning my salary for the day mentally. And I'm rather a bitc* so avoid anything that might set me off that normally wouldn't. And he gets a call on my way home so he knows I want his "help" soon as I get there. Like right inside the front door.

[WildChild]

You're very fortunate Step. Threre are an amazing number of men who use sex as a power tool and say, "too bad".