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  • Futureboy
    Veteran Member
    • Nov 2009
    • 331

    Originally posted by rach
    yeah we talked about it last night. i told him its not the blowjob its self that bothers me its that i dont know what i'm doing and i dont want to make a fool of myself. he said that i dont expect you to be an expert i will teach you if you want. its that a bad thing or what becasue i just hate not knowing what i'm doing and i feel stupid :/
    I love teaching girls it's a massive ego boost. Remember every guy is different so what guy 'A' likes is not nessesarily what guy 'B' likes. It's in his interest to teach you. Sex is exploration and adventure not a bus ride (unless you want to do it on the bus). In return teach him something about your body that you like.

    I like to think I am ok in bed (hey even my ex misses complemented me after dumping me) but you never ever stop learning, it's fun. 18 years of practice and I am not an expert but it's fun trying.

    I would rather have a girl who was inexperianced and willing to learn then one who thought she knew what I wanted and it wasn't.

    You will be fine Smile a naughty smile and you'll be fine

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    • Goodgirl93
      Veteran Member
      • Sep 2009
      • 2634

      Let him teach you,there is nothing wrong with that sweetie.Don't feel stupid,practice makes perfect!

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      • rach
        Member
        • Nov 2009
        • 20

        okay thank you guys that helps a bunch

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        • lovetotasteyou
          Junior Member
          • Jan 2010
          • 2

          try all sorts of things you should be able to tell by the way he reacts. ask him if he likes this or that , commuication is the key . to all sex and relationships

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          • Fatin
            Senior Member
            • Feb 2009
            • 171

            [QUOTE=WildChild;138189]We've had a jillion threads about this

            hahahahahahahaha this is soooo funny i couldnt stop laughing

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