[stressed]

I love this thread. All the little things that make people squirm.


For both me and my wife, as with most here, it is penis head/clitoral stimulation after orgasm. Although she can just lightly touch my sides and I thrash about if it was a good orgasm.

Here in lies the problem....

I want to go down on her after making love but she is always too sensitive. What can I do? I know! No orgasm for you until after.

How about handcuffs & love making; she won't have an escape

[manspoint]

How about handcuffs & love making; she won't have an escape

Love your thinking, Stressed

[WildChild]

How about handcuffs & love making; she won't have an escape

I know this is menat to be humorous but if someone tried that with me it would be the last time they touched me. Learn better techniques and respect people's limits.

[ItsASecret]

How about handcuffs & love making; she won't have an escape

I know this is menat to be humorous but if someone tried that with me it would be the last time they touched me. Learn better techniques and respect people's limits.

Same here. I am not at all big on sensory deprivation or not being able to escape out of an uncomfortable physical position...so handcuffs are out of the picture.

[manspoint]

Okay, so how about a silk tie around each ankle tied to the bed leg/post?

If you were asked by your lover to stay still; don't move, would you? Would you let him/her have their way even if you were sensitive in the area?

[ItsASecret]

Okay, so how about a silk tie around each ankle tied to the bed leg/post?

If you were asked by your lover to stay still; don't move, would you? Would you let him/her have their way even if you were sensitive in the area?

I have let him tie me up with silk scarves while still being able to bend my legs a bit, I did not enjoy it but I didn't stop him because I knew he really wanted to give it a try.

He told me to sit still, don't move, all that...I did my best to stay essentially frozen for him so that he could have his way but after awhile I needed the stimulation to stop so I would bend my legs or literally say "okay that's too much". Still didn't get much out of it but he looked pleased so that's what matters to me.

[heryseshta]

My boyfriend just wraps his arms around my thighs and hips so I can't squirm away. He has also tried pulling me to the edge of the bed and he kneeled on the floor while holding my hips. One thing that I found out is that I actually had to train my body to be able to handle as many orgasms as we wants me to have because too many can get uncomfortable. Maybe make it into a competition too. The fact that I don't scream gave him a challenge and made me able to handle what I normally wouldn't be able to handle, just because I'm stubborn like that.

[manspoint]

My boyfriend just wraps his arms around my thighs and hips so I can't squirm away. He has also tried pulling me to the edge of the bed and he kneeled on the floor while holding my hips. One thing that I found out is that I actually had to train my body to be able to handle as many orgasms as we wants me to have because too many can get uncomfortable. Maybe make it into a competition too. The fact that I don't scream gave him a challenge and made me able to handle what I normally wouldn't be able to handle, just because I'm stubborn like that.

LOL, who's winning? Did he make you scream?

[stressed]

I know this is menat to be humorous but if someone tried that with me it would be the last time they touched me. Learn better techniques and respect people's limits.

Well, of course the other would have to agree to the handcuffs, I'm not talking about anything forceful. And of course one should stop if the other asks for it or doesn't enjoy it, that goes without saying. Besides, there are handcuffs without a lock that one can open at any time; better than being tied up for those who want to know they can 'free themselves' if they want to.

[heryseshta]

LOL, who's winning? Did he make you scream?

It took a while, but he definitely won