[pretzel]

Guys, are you consciously suppressing your moans during the act?

Me, I would say yes.

My wife's not a vocal person either and she says it bothers her for me to be vocal. So I suppress it as much as possible.

But it's also a learned trait. For those parents remember the conversations you've had with your kids trying to explain the various noises coming from the bedroom.

[Texasred]

Guys, are you consciously suppressing your moans during the act?

With my wife I am: she told me "You talk too much" during sex.
I fixed that.

[Texasred]

... For those parents remember the conversations you've had with your kids trying to explain the various noises coming from the bedroom.

I also made a brace for the headboard so it wouldn't squeak or bang the wall...

[LilahX]

Orgasms are easy enough to give a guy but making the journey there mindblowing takes more work. I find that payiing attention to his reactions is vital to learning how to please a man. Even if he doesn't say anything (and most don't) or make much noise (again, most don't), his breathing will change when he's getting more hot and bothered. Pay attention to his breathing whtever you happen to be doing and take not for future reference as to what you're doing at that moment. Once you have a repetoire of things that make him react then you can learn how to tease him almost to the point of no return, then ease off, then build him up again. You can do all that just by paying attention to even the smallest reaction like a slight arch of his hips, an intake of breath, a tensing of his muscles.

Just becasue he's not verbalising doesn't mean he isn't in total bliss.

It's so very satisfying, not to mention arousing, to be attuned to your partner and drive them crazy!