[Hopeless Dork]

I beg to differ.
I can and unfortunately have done so, well enough at least to satisfy my dw...

Why the fake O texas? Just out of female curiousity here !!

[tez83]

Thankyou!!!! although im still a little weirded out by it i tried talking to him about it and he blew his top at me for looking at his porn collection- and thinks its perfectly normal- he seems to enjoy sex with me and im not scared in bed, but the problem now is i cant look at him without feeling sick- i guess its over and told him as much- i cant seem to get over the fact that he would rather see my mother dressed up in leather than me, not offence meant to older women- im aware that we all get old and that older people enjoy sex, but why the was he bothering with me when clearly he prefers older ladies?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Tez, google porn - women over 60 and read some articles.

It is NOT that he prefers older women than you, fantasy and preference in Porn has nothing to do with the person you love and the person you are with.

Don't make rash decisions before viewing logical reasons.

Maybe he is a 2 minute man, maybe he doesn't keep an erection long enough maybe, he needs to view older women to see how lustful they still are when he reaches that age, maybe you need to establish the "connection".. of why older...

If they were your age, you'd not feel wierded out but you for sure would be in-secure, jealous, worried, that he cheated all sorts of things.

If it's porn you don't like fair enough, that's your choice but if it's age, find out why this attracts him as far as "fantasy" is concerned.

CW

[Texinator]

but why the was he bothering with me when clearly he prefers older ladies?

How do you know he prefers older ladies? Did he stop having sex with you in favor of masturbating to porn?

Looking at grannies in leather doesn't necessarily make that his preference, and it certainly doesn't mean that he's not attracted to you.

[PJhavinfunagain]

Exactly... I enjoy looking at all kinds of men, many do not resemble DH at all! I like short semi funky hair.. Dh has longish straight hair. There are many factors to attraction.

[tez83]

Tez, google porn - women over 60 and read some articles.

um this just got me pages of stuff i really dont want to see- i tried typing articles in the search box but that didnt help much- ive given up anyway, the abuse i copped for looking at it in the first place kinda bought out his true colours. Thanks for all your help

[east98606]

My wife is small. Like a size 8. She knows that I like to look at magazines that feature full figured women. Sometimes it bothers her and sometimes it doesn't. Maybe it is something about fantacising about opposites.

ok so I have no issue with porn in general but think it's interesting that someone is weirded out because their so is looking at something that is completely opposite what they are... so as a 40 year old (almost), overweight wife and mother I should or should not have an issue that my so is looking at porn of thin young (early 20's) girls?

hmmm... it's an interesting question to ponder...

Seriously I am not trying to be snarky at all... I truly do find it an interesting issue...