[cubanlink]

i know you guys may not wanna share about experiences while on drugs. but i would like to know whats the best drug for sex, feelings you get, erections that feel powerfull.. i wanna know it all.
i do know marijuana enhances the sex drive but at the same time they say smoking is bad for sex. so i dont know what to think.

[WildChild]

Drugs may lower your inhibitions while you are high. They may heighten Your feelings but my experience has been that for your partner (I've been the partner more than once -pot, coke, whatever) the experience is total carp. Blah. You may have the time of your life but they won't.

Anything that affects your health, mental or physical, will eventually deteriorate your performance in general.

There is so much you can do to naturally heighten your responses and your partner's, it takes more effort and thought than swallowing, shooting of inhaling something but ultimately will give you a lasting quality of experience and connection that no drug could.

[ItsASecret]

Taking stimulants will absolutely make you feel different during sex and there will be varied responses. Some will say it is sooooo much better, and some will say no thanks never again. Sure you are going to be going for a mental trip when you get some CNS stimulation but there is going to be some part of that which will take you away from the actual sex experience simply because that is not you having sex, that is the high you having sex. Going along with that I have heard of the "I couldn't finish" outcome from marijuana sex so I do not know if that would factor into your interests or not. So far the only drug I would say to use, in moderation preferably, is alcohol. It does lower inhibitions and for me it has created a better experience. Though I would not wan to do that all the time.

[Hoochie Coochie Man]

Most illicit drugs, especially those that have any "stimulant" aspect to them will be also be vasoconstrictors (read; Coke, Meth, Esctasy Benzedrene, coffee or 5 hour energy drinks for that matter!) You may experience sex differently from a mental perspective but at the risk of Erection problems.

There is also a bunch of new experimental human aphrodisiacs that greatly enhance libido, desire and recovery time but you take them at your own risk as they are unapproved for human consumption.

There are so many way to explore all of the experiential/sensual side of pleasure why throw drugs in the mix and risk a lifetime of ED problems and related issues? Pick up a good book on trantric sex and mess around with it for a while. Mind blowing!

[WildChild]

Absolutely Hoochie. I've had partners who got into coke, the before and after (during use) difference was profound. A caring attentive lover becomes not even worth effort while high. They might be under the illusion that it was great but they are the only one who thinks so.

[Millania]

I have heard horror stories where men on coke couldnt even "get it up"

[Millania]

Oh yea and in my college days many years ago I tried Ecstacy w/the hubby and my husband couldnt "get it up" until after he was "coming down" sometimes drugs during sex is not the best idea if you want a nice wholesome sexual experience because all types of things can go wrong

[SinisterUrge]

i know you guys may not wanna share about experiences while on drugs.

Sometimes I amaze myself that I've done so few drugs.....

Marijuana (once in a while): Pot adds a little something extra in the 'physical sensation' department. Ever hear a pothead walk around talking about how awesome it feels to have armhair? Its even better for oral sex. S&M and bondage are pretty much out the window (pain hurts too much, blindfolds cause paranoia, etc etc etc). Mechanically nothing much changes.

Marijuana (daily habit): Once you have a tolerance its very difficult to get "high" for any length of time. And if you didn't get your daily scooby snack sex just isn't half as good. I imagine a month-long detox will probably reset your system.

Ecstasy: Did X once, never made it off the couch ("The fabric... its so textile-ish!"). So can't report on any sexual side effects.

Cymbalta: Orgy in pill form. Imagine that you are so euphoric from the anti-depressants that anything (anything) will cause immediate sexual arousal combined with the "utter lack of shame, remorse, guilt, or even a basic survival instinct" caused by being in a prolonged state of pure bliss: I had a lot of sex I don't even remember all of and the stuff I do remember could only be appreciated by David Cronenberg fans. I think I only ate food once every 5 days for the first month (I had no "hunger" or interest in food I couldn't have sex with. I only ate when I started getting faint).

After about 6 months on cymbalta the "constant euphoria" suddenly turns into bi-polar disorder: generally happy with a 1:12 chance of suddenly becoming suicidally depressed and an incredibly aggressive sociopathic temper that was triggered by something different every time. Needless to say I quit cymbalta cold turkey after the bi-polar phase started. It may have passed eventually but I was always felt three heartbeats away from committing homicide, not a fun state of mind.

Alcohol: Sloppy. If there is any possibility of sex I don't drink. I think I drank 14 beers in 2009.

[cubanlink]

Sometimes I amaze myself that I've done so few drugs.....

Marijuana (once in a while): Pot adds a little something extra in the 'physical sensation' department. Ever hear a pothead walk around talking about how awesome it feels to have armhair? Its even better for oral sex. S&M and bondage are pretty much out the window (pain hurts too much, blindfolds cause paranoia, etc etc etc). Mechanically nothing much changes.

Marijuana (daily habit): Once you have a tolerance its very difficult to get "high" for any length of time. And if you didn't get your daily scooby snack sex just isn't half as good. I imagine a month-long detox will probably reset your system.

Ecstasy: Did X once, never made it off the couch ("The fabric... its so textile-ish!"). So can't report on any sexual side effects.

Cymbalta: Orgy in pill form. Imagine that you are so euphoric from the anti-depressants that anything (anything) will cause immediate sexual arousal combined with the "utter lack of shame, remorse, guilt, or even a basic survival instinct" caused by being in a prolonged state of pure bliss: I had a lot of sex I don't even remember all of and the stuff I do remember could only be appreciated by David Cronenberg fans. I think I only ate food once every 5 days for the first month (I had no "hunger" or interest in food I couldn't have sex with. I only ate when I started getting faint).

After about 6 months on cymbalta the "constant euphoria" suddenly turns into bi-polar disorder: generally happy with a 1:12 chance of suddenly becoming suicidally depressed and an incredibly aggressive sociopathic temper that was triggered by something different every time. Needless to say I quit cymbalta cold turkey after the bi-polar phase started. It may have passed eventually but I was always felt three heartbeats away from committing homicide, not a fun state of mind.

Alcohol: Sloppy. If there is any possibility of sex I don't drink. I think I drank 14 beers in 2009.

wow this was a mind blowing message, i like your honesty, but yeah im a daily smoker and i only smoke because i have better sex and i get hard. i dont perform sober all.... my head n mind starts to fart. lol

[Millania]

cubanlink-my husband would agree with u on the smokin thing=better sex lol
I have been trying to drink less on the weekends now I barely drink at all because there would be those nights on Fridays and Saturdays where I would wake up the next day and say "what the heck happened last night" and my hubby would be like "that was awesome last night right?" and I wouldnt even remember it lmao so now I barely drink which I think is a better choice for me bc sinister urge is right alcohol=sloppy