[Fish]

I just want to say that my boyfriend is AWESOME. We have been together for nearly 3 1/2 years but have only been having sex since December. Right now we are doing the long distance thing, so we only see each other every few weeks...which gives us plenty of time to talk about what we want to do and such.

We saw each other last week, and of course made love quite a bit. Every time it felt better and better (now I understand what you girls are talking about when you say that it took you a while to enjoy sex- and I thought it was amazing the first time, ha).

Anyway, the last two times we made love, I had orgasms without extra manual stimulation. He was such a trooper, he lasted for quite some time to get me there ("babe why do you look so serious" "i'm trying to concentrate on not coming!" lol). We were doing something similar to the coital alignment technique I think. If you haven't tried it, do it tonight! It takes some practice but boy does it pay off.

Sorry for bragging but I just had to share.

[tinycit]

That's what's so fun about sex. Everyone likes something different. Neither one of us can orgasm from intercourse, nor do we care one hoot about it. I can't think of any other reason to have intercourse other than if you want to get pregnant. I'm certainly not interested in getting pregnant. But hey, whatever. We find oral sex and manual stimulation to be much more enjoyable. Sure, a little thrusting is fun, but that's why god invented the dildo. His fingers + his tongue + my clit = heaven.

[Fish]

God didn't invent the dildo; he invented the penis, man copied and made the dildo. I'll take the original, thank you. And sex is about connecting with your partner in the deepest way possible. But whatever floats your boat.

[Funny Thing About It Is..]

I agree with fish it is a deep personal journey between u and ur partner.

[Disco]

I never need any manual or oral stimualtion. In fact, I don't fancy fingers/a hand down there at all.
If I come I come waaay before my boyfriend. Sometimes I orgasm twice or three times before he finally comes.

Edit: I don't like long pauses between sessions though, like week or more. I don't get mad horny or anything, but I find myself getting sore really quickly once I finally have sex.
Two three days is perfect for starters then build up to once a day and then several times a day.

[manspoint]

Fish....your relationship sounds wonderful and you have a good attitude on "making love" (thank you for calling it that) for someone so new to it.

I will have to look up that technique. I can last hours at foreplay but 10-15 mins tops at intercourse. But then, she doesn't like it taking a long time. She gets sore.

Keep up the loving communication and you'll be together soon knowing all you need to know about each other.

[sarahlee20]

I just want to say that my boyfriend is AWESOME. We have been together for nearly 3 1/2 years but have only been having sex since December. Right now we are doing the long distance thing, so we only see each other every few weeks...which gives us plenty of time to talk about what we want to do and such.

We saw each other last week, and of course made love quite a bit. Every time it felt better and better (now I understand what you girls are talking about when you say that it took you a while to enjoy sex- and I thought it was amazing the first time, ha).

Anyway, the last two times we made love, I had orgasms without extra manual stimulation. He was such a trooper, he lasted for quite some time to get me there ("babe why do you look so serious" "i'm trying to concentrate on not coming!" lol). We were doing something similar to the coital alignment technique I think. If you haven't tried it, do it tonight! It takes some practice but boy does it pay off.

Sorry for bragging but I just had to share.

Never heard of the ciloral alignment technique? I'd love to orgasm more when my fiance and i make love. I hate having to use my dildo after we do it ..Just the vibration makes me come so much quicker and feels so good and stong...... hmmm will have to look that up. Congrats on your wonderful relationship fish! My fiance and I will be celebrating our 2 years this summer.

[sarahlee20]

I just want to say that my boyfriend is AWESOME. We have been together for nearly 3 1/2 years but have only been having sex since December. Right now we are doing the long distance thing, so we only see each other every few weeks...which gives us plenty of time to talk about what we want to do and such.

We saw each other last week, and of course made love quite a bit. Every time it felt better and better (now I understand what you girls are talking about when you say that it took you a while to enjoy sex- and I thought it was amazing the first time, ha).

Anyway, the last two times we made love, I had orgasms without extra manual stimulation. He was such a trooper, he lasted for quite some time to get me there ("babe why do you look so serious" "i'm trying to concentrate on not coming!" lol). We were doing something similar to the coital alignment technique I think. If you haven't tried it, do it tonight! It takes some practice but boy does it pay off.

Sorry for bragging but I just had to share.

Never heard of the ciloral alignment technique? I've never heard of it. I'd lvoe to orgasm more when my fiance and i make love. hmmm will have to look that up. Congrats on your wonderful relationship fish! My fiance and I will be celebrating our 2 years this summer.

[purplePixie]

God didn't invent the dildo; he invented the penis, man copied and made the dildo. I'll take the original, thank you. And sex is about connecting with your partner in the deepest way possible. But whatever floats your boat.

AGREED!! There's sooo much more to sexual intercourse, just plain S E C K S that you cannnOOT get from anything else, most DEFINETELY not from a piece of manufactured plastic/rubber/whatever. The emotion and sensuality involved is incredibly engaging, and can just be found no-how else. Even just traditional sex can be so stimulating, whether one "gets off" or not.

[Fish]

Definitely. We did everything except have intercourse until December, and I thought sex wouldn't really be that much different. But I was definitely wrong, sex has allowed us to connect on such a deeper level, I can't even put it in words!!

And about the coital alignment technique, there are lots of websites that tell you about it but it is pretty confusing and takes a couple of times to get right. The main thing is for him to be further up the length of your body and for him to be super close to you.