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I am not still with this person, this was a relationship from a looonnnnggg time ago. Just something that came up in conversation with me now boyfriend and we were discussing what his deal was. My main concern about it was, yea, mabye the first time or two he was trying to arouse me. After me getting upset about it after a while, he still kept on doing it repeatedly. So we were discussing it possible being a fetish.“The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails.†- William Arthur Ward -
ive never had this happen to me but just reading it made me think how much i would love to experience it happening this way...kinda kinky, sexy and erotic were my 1st thoughts..maybe even a fantasy now lol, but i can see how some people may find it slightly abnormal or abusive, just depends on how you feel as to how you would take it if it happened to you, the partner might also have alot to do with it if you dont trust them or its a new relationship etc.Comment
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This sounds like it would be pretty annoying to me, depending on what kind of sleep I'm having. Sometimes my boyfriend and I seem to be having similar dreams and get involved while still mostly asleep... but I imagine it would really me off if I was woken up when I didn't want to be. I think no matter how much you like sex or the person you're with, being woken up at certain times could be a complete turn off.Comment
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