[ChelseaRenee]

I'm sorry if this sounds insensitive, but you want people to give you advise whether you should marry this much older man because he is on Viagra? Viagra is your hook up? This man who wants, the having and giving, of the pleasures of sex with you. And now you are confused?

My advice is not to get married to him or anyone else until you can sort out you priorities.

Sorry

She's confused because she had a knee-jerk reaction. Viagra is a drug that causes erections when a man can't have one naturally. Everyone knows that when an ABLE BODIED man is aroused, he'll have an erection. She always thought he was an able bodied man and that his erections were due to his attraction towards her, and now that she knows he had to use a pill to get his desired reaction, her ego's bruised. Though, it shouldn't be. It's got nothing to do with her, and everything to do with his age and health. Don't be so judgmental...Clearly she loves him, I don't think you should be telling her not to marry him because she had a reaction to something kind of big that he was hiding from her for quite some time.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

She's confused because she had a knee-jerk reaction. Viagra is a drug that causes erections when a man can't have one naturally. Everyone knows that when an ABLE BODIED man is aroused, he'll have an erection. She always thought he was an able bodied man and that his erections were due to his attraction towards her, and now that she knows he had to use a pill to get his desired reaction, her ego's bruised. Though, it shouldn't be. It's got nothing to do with her, and everything to do with his age and health. Don't be so judgmental...Clearly she loves him, I don't think you should be telling her not to marry him because she had a reaction to something kind of big that he was hiding from her for quite some time.

I tend to agree with this first paragraph. For a man older than a woman as well, he probably feels he needs to compete.. Please. So he has taken methods to do so.

I tend to feel that what a "good guy" for being honest... Honesty is highly important in a relationship. Now out in the open? He's only 45, he may understand the reason as to why he did it to start with and suffice to say, doesn't' need it.

Men have fear i think, where age difference is concerned. I think she needs to say, " i love you so you don't need it" and let nature take it's natural course.

My guy is 48, he doesn't need it. Confidence is everything. There is an age difference.

I have said before, i am aware of my own staff, 23 and he is 50, they love each other to death. True deep love, age is only what you make it to be.

If i was in a different sphere at this point in time, i would say regardless of you guys, i would try a younger man for the love and adventure of lost years but at the same time, respect him, love him with passion so does that make me a ...............if he liked being with me..

Understand we can not predict our future, but that has nothing to do with age, it is our future.

Don't be hard on him... He admitted it... He probably doesn't need it and did it out of love.

Communicate over it is my opinion...

CW

[Little]

Necroed thread oh, SO FOR THE LOSE.
Why do these year-old threads keep getting responded to?? I'll give it to you all that the OP'er has since posted not long ago, but this thread was made in 07. SRSLY.
But kudos to CR and CW for very thoughtful posts

[C]

When thinking of Viagra and the sexual power of a woman, the movie "It's A Woman's World" always crops up....A man can loose this capacity at a young age in life....He can be made to feel like a failure and this affects his sexual performance.....Then again a man can be made to feel like a King...and he proves he is a King......Then age is a number only.....

Take care, Caroline

[miffed23]

Necroed thread oh, SO FOR THE LOSE.
Why do these year-old threads keep getting responded to?? I'll give it to you all that the OP'er has since posted not long ago, but this thread was made in 07. SRSLY.
But kudos to CR and CW for very thoughtful posts

Mwahahaha, thats so funny. I didnt even notice, ranting on about "sooooo, did he propose last night"?!?

Mental note - one will look at the date on posts from now on in.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

LOL...

Now come on i usually pick up the 2007's i've been here for a little while

So who started it again then mmmmm?

I know!!!!

Bugger.

LMTO... true i am...

Great for the morning start.

Thanks Little.... appreciate your kind words .. taking my advice elsewhere now i feel, another thread? Checking the date?

CW

[Sweetness182]

Theres no problem.
His age is probably the main factor for taking the viagra.
If ou love him go for it.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Old thread, poster gone let's not post answers that will never get answered.