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  • sarahlee20
    Veteran Member
    • Feb 2010
    • 334

    I felt a difference

    ouchie starz that sounds painful I noticed one when the condom tip came off my hubbie when we had sex and i could tell there wasn't a condom. Itfelt so good i actually stopped and noticed i felt so much a difference lol But it felt awesome none the less. If i were using a different type of birth control i would go without a condom it felt so good.
    Life's a dance you learn as you go

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    • ChelseaC
      Junior Member
      • Mar 2010
      • 6

      Originally posted by xxstarzxxrockxx
      Oh, yes, there's a difference! It hurts like whoa to use a condom! Only one of the four guys I was with used a condom, while we had sex. And it was a lot more uncomfortable that time than any of the other times with other guys. And he only lasted five minutes, while the other guys lasted 2-5 hours. But I hate birth control, too... I don't know what the answer for me is.
      I lost my virginity recently and he was wearing a condom. it hurt like !! is it maybe because of the condom. ??

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      • WildChild
        Banned
        • Sep 2008
        • 14142

        I am latex sensitive and that may account for much of the discomfort with condoms. Like Mes, they dry me out in a flash. Additionally the lubricated ones may contain some chemicals that cause a reaction.

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        • Hopeless Dork
          Veteran Member
          • Dec 2008
          • 4255

          I don't feel any pain at all with condom sex... maybe its because my guy uses lubricated ones? I monitor my cycle and we practice condom use on non safe days and pull out method on safe days.

          My guy has a pretty big penis and I am an avid keglar, never had vaginal child birth and don't feel loose, I can squeeze and come on a finger with plenty of friction...

          When my guy has entered me, I can't feel his skin, I only fell the pressure of his erection thrusting around...

          Originally posted by Disco

          Maybe if a woman has given birth and is a bit looser down there it doesn't make a difference but it does for me.
          I doubt looseness / tightness plays a role either way, but I think if it did it, it would be just as feasable that a looser vagina would feel a condom clanking around in there more than a tighter one thus notice the difference more ?

          I don't think thats true just wondering what the thought process was behind that theory?
          Last edited by Hopeless Dork; 03-07-2010, 07:37 AM.
          Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.

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          • Hopeless Dork
            Veteran Member
            • Dec 2008
            • 4255

            Also I wonder if it has anything to do with the way a condom fits a guy, how he wears it etc. I was with a guy a long time ago that I remember feeling the condom feel weird and I think it was loose on him or had too much of a pouch up top but I do remember it feeling weird.

            But my boyfriends condom fits him like a glove, its the thinnest latex available and once he is inside , I feel nothing but pressure in all directions, the condom doesn't seem to make a difference to me with that.
            Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.

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            • sourpuss
              Veteran Member
              • Dec 2006
              • 3581

              I can feel them. It's definitely better without and I have to use lubricant with them because they make me dry immediately. But, it beats unwanted pregnancy for the moment.

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              • stressed
                Veteran Member
                • Jun 2009
                • 1914

                Not a condom expert, but by what I recall, given the choice then I'd definitely choose no condom (but other forms of protection). It doesn't feel extremely different, but the best part of not using one is the feeling of the moment they ejaculate. Condoms can't beat that.

                However, the pull out method is not recommended. If pregnancy is not in the plans while you don't use any form of birth control then you're being careless.

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                • Fish
                  Senior Member
                  • Oct 2009
                  • 143

                  I feel a difference in sensation for sure. Also, with a condom, I dry up pretty quick (even with a lubed condom) but without we have no problems. I'm on the pill, we are each other's first (and only) partner...so we just don't feel the need to use condoms...but they are a necessity for some people, depending on the situation.

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                  • amaranthine
                    Senior Member
                    • Apr 2009
                    • 118

                    I can tell the difference. To me, it's like the difference between shaking someone's hand wearing a latex glove. There is no way not to notice it.
                    Plus, I get dried out from condoms, and sex then becomes extremely unpleasant.
                    I hate condoms.
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                    • amaranthine
                      Senior Member
                      • Apr 2009
                      • 118

                      Originally posted by ChelseaC
                      I lost my virginity recently and he was wearing a condom. it hurt like !! is it maybe because of the condom. ??
                      Could be. I know condoms dry me out, so maybe they dry you up, too.
                      Could just also be because it was your first time, though.
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