[kygirl]

I think I would choose option one because I find ambition extremely attractive... I don't think I could even be attracted longterm (honestly) to someone who had no drive or goals...

I wouldn't care about the sex because I dont' think I'd really want it if that's all there was... And twice a week isn't the worst thing ever...Now if you'd said once every two months... then that might concern me, but I pretty much agree with what KM said above.

[needanswer99]

a little modified scenario

no woman would go for choice no. 2..it is obvious out of question...

but a man can go for choice no 1.....many men do not care if their partner is not earning..(infact all good men)......so they would go for choice no. 2

so NOW for both man and women....
what if we change the choices as

1) comfortable life and little sex
2) poor life and more sex

Now what a man or a woman would choose?????

for me still no 1.....i have my reasons..

what is yours????

[WildChild]

How do you define "comfortable" and "poor"?

[Hopeless Dork]

Isn't that really the same question, need answers?

Its basically asking would you rather be well off with a poor sex life or poor with a well off sex life... I don't see how your new question differs from the OP?

And I think it very unfair, and untrue to say no woman would choose passionate sex over money and a cold bedroom partner. I have a vagina, and I would choose love and sex over money any day of the week.

[needanswer99]

clarification

I meant

1) financial comforable and little sex
2) financial poor and more sex

I have been thru a time when we had NOt a single penny in the middle of the month and requesting people to lend us some and IT WAS A BIG MENTAL TORTURE .....so I would go definitely for choice no": 1
MAY BE some people would have worst scenario financially than me.

And my dear HOPELESS DORK:

u r right! you or we have vagina, but before to use it we have to cover our body and we need place to live and most importantly we have to fill our stomach's lust (food).....

and unfortunately, it needs finance or money in this world.....haha