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I personally dont believe having anal sex makes your butt bigger,but thats just my opinion. I also what you do in your home in your own business,yours and your God. Who are we to judge.
I myself have tried anal sex a few times and while its not my cup of tea,I dont think there is anything wrong with it.Thats not to say it doesnt hurt like all get out the first time,hell maybe even the second,but if thats what YOU wanna do go for it.
Again this is all just my little two cents....
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I already knew she wasn't Christian.Which would be well and good, except nobody was actually talking about the Bible. The discussion was about the Qur'an.
People do tend to have a knee-jerk reaction where they hear (or read) the word 'Religion' and just assume that person is Christian. It would be wise to get one's facts straight on what a person's beliefs are before attempting to dispute them. That way, a good deal of the confusion in a discussion like this could be avoided.
Don't tell me something I know.Comment
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No it never hurt. Not even the first time. It is very, very important that your lover goes slow. Foreplay should be long. He usually does foreplay on my buttocks for at least 30 minutes. Just kissing, caressing, fondling. Your lover should be very gentle. This will relax you psychologically ... which in turn will help relax your anal muscles. Once your anal muscles are relaxed, his tongue or his finger can go inside of you with no problem. It is a very pleasurable experience. Personally, it drives me to orgasm everytime he kisses my vagina while he penetrates my anus with his fingers.
I started having anal sex with my husband ... when we were dating. He never asked for it verbally but during foreplay he would pay a lot of attention to my behind. No one had ever paid so much attention to my buttocks before. No one had ever kissed my anus either ! That is how it all started. Once he did it, I was hooked!! For me the pleasure is so intense. After he taught me to experience pleasure from anal stimulation, it was I who begged him to penetrate my anus with his penis !
You ask if I am concerned my lover will not want vaginal sex ? at the beginning I was, but later the fear disappeared. Everytime we make love, we do it both ways. First we have vaginal sex, then we have anal sex.
Does my lover come inside of me when we have anal sex ? Yes my husband does come inside of my anus. I love it this way. It is a matter of trust, this is what makes it so exciting and erotic for me. For health reasons (aids), it is riskier. However, he has not given me any indication of being unfaithful to me.Comment
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Did I really? I don't recall mentioning you in my post, I merely replied to you.
Perhaps you mistook my statement about somebody (i.e. not you) bringing the Bible in to this discussion when it was completely irrelevant as a reflection on you in some way. No, I'm quite aware that all you did was 'cheer on' the original, irrelevant comment. Incidentally, that speaks for itself without my help.
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I was only agreeing with what she said. I had been monitoring this thread for a while and I found nothing worth quoting and I finally found something.
"It would be wise to get one's facts straight on what a person's beliefs are before attempting to dispute them."
Now...who were you directing that to?Comment
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The person who made the irrelevant comment (which was only irrelevant because of the erroneous context) of course. How could it have been anyone else?I was only agreeing with what she said. I had been monitoring this thread for a while and I found nothing worth quoting and I finally found something.
"It would be wise to get one's facts straight on what a person's beliefs are before attempting to dispute them."
Now...who were you directing that to?Comment
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Actually, I'll elaborate, as there is clearly a misunderstanding here. I was initially irked because someone came steaming in to the discussion with a statement about the Bible. That would be fine, except nobody was talking about the Bible, the subject was Islamic beliefs, therefore the book to which Housewife referred was the Qur'an. The reason that I was irked was for the simple fact that the minute some people read the word Religion, they automatically assume that person propagating their religious beliefs is a fundamental Christian. It's a common occurrence these days for some reason and I imagine that most reactionaries of this nature are American for the sole reason that they are dealing with a particularly controversial fundamental Christian as their president and resent their beliefs being forced on to everyone.
That is all well and good in a discussion, but that comment had absolutely no bearing on the existing discussion. 'The Bible is written by people and people are stupid' had as much relevance to a certain lady's Islamic beliefs as someone exclaiming, "Frogs are amphibious!" when in fact people were talking about chicken-rearing. Do you see my point?
Now the reason I replied to you was because for some bizarre reason, you came in to the thread just to cheer on the completely irrelevant comment. I never implied that you weren't aware of the fact that the discussion was based around Islamic beliefs. Instead I was expressing my distaste that once again, someone (again, not you) had read the word 'religion' and had jumped to an inaccurate conclusion. I will admit that I found it strange that you endorsed that comment, rather than one that actually pertained to the thread, but no, I was not making any presumptions about your knowledge-retention. I hope that clears up the matter.
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Fine.
I just think that housewife should stop forcing her religion on someone when they didn't ask for that. Also, telling someone they're going to hell isn't the nicest thing to say. Even if it was a warning.
Have anal sex and be happy, but always remember that everything you do has a good/bad outcome. ^_^
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