[Guest]

My husband asked me do I want to have boomgaloongers with him tonight, but I just heard from a friend what boomgaloongers is. I said no because he was rude. Was I wrong? Should I have let him put it in my butt??

[Mes T]

... What is boomgaloongers??

[Guest]

My friends say it means a raunchy sex with a overweight person where the man lays the woman on her back and alternates going in her vagina and then between her butt crack, and ultimately ejaculates in the seam of the butt crack.

and found this in wiktionary:

Often used in its plural form (boomgaloongers), is sex with an overweight person (normally a woman) with thick thighs and a big butt.

[MissMeSha810]

... What is boomgaloongers??

lol....I think he made that up and I think that was his way of saying it because he probably would have gotten hurt if he'd have said, "Can I put it in your butt?" lol
If you feel he was rude about it, then no. He could have found a more romantic way of saying it.

[Mes T]

Well... I'd really advise AGAINST alternating between vaginal and anal sex in one go, as the bacteria from your anus could really be harmful to your vagina!

I say one or the other and GO GO GO!!

[MissMeSha810]

Well... I'd really advise AGAINST alternating between vaginal and anal sex in one go, as the bacteria from your anus could really be harmful to your vagina!

I say one or the other and GO GO GO!!

So true. I opted to avoid it nowadays because I'm so bacteria prone

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I said no because he was rude.

Are you thinking he was having you on? Or that he was calling you over weight?

How does your husband generally treat you?

With respect? Or not....

If your talking about the "butt crack only" not anal, then as long as your clean on the outside there, it's only the cheeks of your butt he's referring to. If you find it "rude" then your saying he's doing it for his pleasure not yours, using your vagina for wetness and your cheeks for tightness which I would find rude.

[Faerunner]

Yikes!~ Tell him to come back and try again when he's learned some respect! (I never knew that was a word either... the things people come up with!)

You were within your rights to say no, especially considering you only barely understand what he meant! I'd discuss it with him and if he -really- wants to try something new, he should be respectful and ask nicely, and take your feelings into account. Hopefully you can come to an agreement where he can ask without using idiotic slang (the word itself is hardly sexy!), and where you can accept without feeling like he's just using you.

[Guest]

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[Guest]

How does your husband generally treat you?

Yeah he's usually semi-charming when hes after what he wants. He usually says he'd buy me shoes, clothes and take me to dinner, etc. if I give him boomgaloongers afterwards. He said he likes it alot. I can tell the way he gets himself off; Something about the texture of my butt. IDK kinda weird, but It doesn't feel bad but I want to try something I like for once in our sex life.