[Anon_1990]

Can this do damage? I'm still kinda tense over everything so two or three nice relaxation periods in the morning, then a few at night seem to help boost me for the day, but can you do any damage?

[Hopeless Dork]

No damage other than chaffing, etc... if your not careful with yourself but Its not going to damage your body. If you are doing it in your spare time and its not affecting your life then there is likely no emotional damage to come from it either.

Do try to change up your techniques and stimulants so that you don't develop rituals that become necessary in order for you to enjoy sexual stimulation with a partner later on when you find one you want to share your sexuality with.

[Anon_1990]

It is getting to the point where I leave my house and start looking foward to the next "play"

[stressed]

It seems to becoming a habit for you that might affect your future sex life with a partner. Try to keep yourself busy with other activities you enjoy if you can. Watch movies, play video games, read books.

[Anon_1990]

It is! God, After one I can't wait for the next! Its helping me smile though! I'm generally feeling better

[stressed]

But you do realise that you may have to cut down on it once you're in a relationship. As then her satisfaction will have to come first from your end, and yours from her end. Then masturbation will only be an 'extra', not the goal.

Not saying it will happen like that, I'm only giving you ideas.

[Anon_1990]

Oh I know that. I just don't know how long it will be. I still desperatley want my girl back :-(

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Well your still doing it for HER...

I know your heart is breaking but masterbation is about relief, not relief of love.. To dream

Hold on tight and go out there young man and start looking at who you are and what you are

CW

[Anon_1990]

its not 4 times in one hour anymore like it was!

[Maximus]

Stopping the pendulum...

Remember that every time you're doing it, you're litterally flooding your brain with dopamine, responsible for the arousal, and prolactin, responsible for the relaxation that follows.
Constantly swinging between these two substances creates an inbalance in your system.

Why don't you try something different Go out, more outdoor sport, give yourself a physical challenge. I'm sure there are sports you can do, and excel even.
Like in all things exxageration becomes a burden and reduces the clarity of the mind.


V.