[Anon_1990]

Just cup them, rub them, fiddle them. Trust me it's good!

[lucybelle]

Alright I'll do it! I'm always a little conservative in the sack because I'm worried I'll do something wrong, or he'll have had someone do it better. But it's time to step out of that nonsense!! After all, we all know that sex is like pizza-- Even when it's bad it's still pretty good.=)

[Guest]

Hi Lucybelle. First , don't be afraid to touch them. You're unlikely to hurt him. My girlfriend sometimes makes me wince a little, but she's not rough. And it's more than worth it! It's just that sometimes a tube may go the wrong way. No, you don't have to just play with them when you are having sex. Tell him you like them and would he mind if you play with them a while so you can get used to their feel and shape. Ask him to strip off while he watches his favourite tv programme. Crouch down in front of him and generally feel your way around. Ask him occasionally if he likes what you're doing.It's better if he's shaved as you can see and feel so much more. One will be larger than the other and will hang down lower. This is normal. Imagine which one holds the female fluid and which the male. Tell him you like the way he hangs. If he's not shaved, consider asking him to shave the area for you so you can appreciate it more. Better still, offer to shave him yourself! Tell you more later if you like.

[Hopeless Dork]

Guys are as different in what they like done/not done to their testicles as woman are to their bits. Some guys don't want you anywhere near their balls and some would like you to stomp on them with your heels.

Most guys vary somewhere in the middle of all that... but asking your guy firstly if he wants you to touch them.. if he says yes... then as you do asking him softer? Harder? here? there? figuring out the kind of touch he likes and the pressure and the variations are whats going to make him personally happy.

Learning how joe bob or tony likes their balls handled will not prepare you for own boyfriends/husbands balls.


For the OP... Until My bf I never had an interest in balls. I didn't like the look of them, the texture of them.... I would avoid them at all cost.

But upon falling in love, I fell in love with every part of my guys body, his balls included. I find his sexy, love playing with them for his pleasure it turns me on.

But thats the same for oral sex and other things I wasn't fond of and now am the hugest fan of. I think loving someone, being totally into someone can completely reinvent you sexually -- it did me!

[Rediscovered]

I think loving someone, being totally into someone can completely reinvent you sexually -- it did me!

Isn't that the truth??!!! And to be able to talk about sex with that person makes everything so much easier and more comfortable and a heck of a lot more fun.

[lucybelle]

And to be able to talk about sex with that person makes everything so much easier and more comfortable and a heck of a lot more fun.

That's something I've never been able to do. I feel pretty comfortable doing new positions and having sex in different, fun places... but I sure as heck don't want to talk to him about it! I'll talk to my girlfriends all day, but I feel so awkward and nervous talking to the actual guy. What makes it worse for me is my "friend" speaks Spanish and so I'm worried I'm going to use the wrong words and sound ridiculous! The language barrier certainly makes it easier to talk dirty though... since I do it in English! haha=)

[Vixen]

I quite like when im on top and reaching back to play with a guys balls, but this has had some bad reactions so best to play before and see what he thinks or you are at risk of being thrown off him and your on the floor naked wondering what the happened.

[Guest]

Lucybelle. You don't say what kind of relationship you have with your guy. If it's a long one or whether you've just known him for a short time? If you'd like more advice let me know as this will determine how you tackle his tackle, so to speak. I'll explain in detail what to do. What he's likely to like etc.

[heryseshta]

I actually don't really like playing with them during sex, and while giving oral I play with his hips and legs mostly. Occasionally I play with his balls. But when he plays on his xbox most of the time I am curled up in a ball between his legs with my head rested on his hip. I play with his balls or anything else I feel like. It can lead to sex later or it doesn't. I know he likes me playing with him too even if it doesn't lead to anything. I do know he doesn't like them sucked on though!

[Guest]

Yes, this is what my partner does sometimes (not enough though) She will get my shorts off and play around with my balls, and occasionally stroke my (very hard) shaft whilst we watch tv. Sometimes this lasts for a couple of hours before she will decide when I ejaculate. She is very caring, but, as I've just posted on another blog, this only happens every few weeks and that's not enough to stop me feeling like I'm going to explode! Most men I think would love their partners to play with their genitals more often. I would love it if my partner asked me to not wear any underwear. And then occassionally put her hand up my shorts to feel me. This is so erotic!!