[Wruinin]

i am completely new here so I don't wnat to start as "smart" but sincerely, at may age and my kind of life, i have lots of experience and may say something that could help understand what's going on

first, are you sexually active more than your bf because he turns you on so much or because you are just horny for some reason? if he turns you on and he knows he turns you on, then he might feel passive / he thinks he should do it for you and it is not fun, we guys like to conquer you, ladies

or he may be way behind you in terms of sexual needs - my sexual needs when I was 17 were almost none compared to these days / but i remember i had lots of fantasies, you might try to seduce him through games and fantasies, turn into some kind of devil or something

and the most boring reason may be he is not interested in you any more, or losing interest and looking for someone else - you can still win the thing if you don't push and rather provoke him without giving him what he wants, tease, touch, get almost undressed and then go away, which is a strategy you can use to start sex anytime / i wish my gf did this to me

sorry I pour out so much stuff but maybe you can choose something adequate from that

[JennieMay]

I was 17 when I started having sex, and I had a high sex drive, and my boyfriend was 17 too, his sex drive wasn't as high as mine, and I ended up cheating on him because I wanted to have it so much. I am married to him now because I really loved him even though he didn't satisfy me fully. I would suggest you ask him about his sex drive and how you feel before you deside to stay with someone like that, because when you get married, it will be a big problem and you will feel like alot of women who married men with a low sex drive. I do think the biggest problem with men is the computer porn, they have replaced the time they could be giving us. Women are so hard to satisfy, they require more time to orgasim, and men are too lazy to try.

If I were you knowing what I know now I would have kept looking for someone with a high sex drive.

JM