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Does he use the word "gay" in a way in a slang way? Like not meaning "that's so homosexual," but more along the lines of "well that's stupid/silly/weird/unfortunate/dumb/etc"
I know plenty of people (mostly men, but some women, and I've caught myself saying it too before) who use the term "gay" as an adjective, but not meaning homosexual, more meaning "stupid" or "weird" or "silly".. its derogatory, but it is how many people use the term now - google URBAN DICTIONARY and look up the definition of "gay" - it will explain probably better than I can how the term used in slang can mean more than "homosexual" -
I was thinking the same thing Kmonte.There is a method to my madness ........ I just haven't found it yet.Comment
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I agree with KMonte, I use it in the same context, always always have.Comment
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If he was meaning gay as in a homosexual way, I wonder why he would think masturbating in your sleep is gay and when you're awake it's not. What would be the difference?There is a method to my madness ........ I just haven't found it yet.Comment
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I would think he meant gay as 'lame' or 'silly' or 'stupid' not as in gay in the way of sexuality... as the logic wouldn't fit since he's okay with waking masturbation and doesn't see it as gay.
Masturbation during sleep is an odd behavior... is this the first time its ever happened? Usually people don't have the dexterity to grip something while they are asleep I would imagine. Like how when you dream you are running it feels like you are pushing against the wind... like you are actually trying to move your arms in your sleep and cant... i'd be less suprised if he were just humping the bed, pillow or blanket but actually stroking while snoring is a new one for me.
Is he a sleep walker or do other things like that while in a sleep state?Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.Comment
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Hmm. Maybe just a word, but maybe he DID remember what he was dreaming about.
Masturbating itself isn't gay (unless you want to label about 95% of the human race as "gay") - its not a connection that most men would make.Comment
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