[cmc21]

I'm embarrassed to say this so I am going to ask on here lol I have this problem or I think it's a problem... When my boyfriend and I have sex with me on top, it feels GREAT! But! I think I pee on him... I don't feel myself peeing, I just all of a sudden get soaked between him and I and it's so much it ends up running down his hips onto the bed on either side soaking it. It's awful because it smells like urine to me and it stings if we don't wipe it off. He doesn't seem to notice that it smells or he does and it just doesn't bother him, I have no idea. I just know when it happens I do feel an orgasm, I think I don't have ALOT of experiance with orgasms because I didn't really have them with my first boyfriend and the second one I only had one when he did and with this new one it's usually the same but I am sure and he is sure I have had some without his help, which is great but that only happens when I am on bottom. I was never on top with my other guys because I never felt confident enough but the new one seems to have this gentle, kind nature that overwhelms me and makes me feel amazing so I am able to do everything I want without judgment. My first boyfriend use to hit me Alot. If I touched his penis with my teeth, I was hit so hard I'd hit the floor and he'd yell profanity and make me do it again. Needless to say, I haven't been able to do anything besides simple missionary intercourse till my new boyfriend came along.

With this, "peeing" act, it's KILLING my confidence and when it happens, the mood is gone for me and usually it's before he has orgasmed and I feel bad if I stop so I don't and just fake the rest and it hurts me to do that. Anyone else have this issue or know what it could be? With me on top could he be bumping my bladder? I don't know..

[jns]

Pee before you have sex, then you will be sure it's not pee.

[whit4488]

you could be a girl that can squirt when she cums, its runny and watery like urine, but its not urine. google it.

[PJhavinfunagain]

It's called female ejaculation. It is due to him stimulating your G-spot and you being super aroused. It is also related to a G-spot orgasm. You are a lucky girl. Many women try for years to achieve this.

[LanaBear]

Pee before sex, you'll still ejaculate, more than likely, but at least you can be rest assured that it is not pee. And more than likely, your boyfriend enjoys it more than you think. So relax, don't worry and enjoy.

[PJhavinfunagain]

what Lana said... She's smart

[grrrr]

it's really not the end of the world. Even if you do "pee" - it's not like you're the only one who's done it.....

[sarahlou]

Definetly agree with the above, make sure u have been to the loo before you both get on with things and if it still happens be reassured that u have the ability to squirt when aroused and most women would kill for this. Enjoy and shre this moment with ur boyfriend hunnie xx

[maverick]

Yes, Lana is correct. From a guy's perspective, having a partner so turrned on that she drenches him is great. Don't worry about it, enjoy it! I'm sure that he does!

[Ashlee T.]

I have had a similar experience. Sometimes it happens when I feel like I'm having aorgasm, and sometimes it happens when I haven't felt any great amt of pleasure at all. The first time, I thought I peed on the guy too....and Im still truly not sure I didn't. Thing is though, if it was urine, he didn't really know it, he just thought " man I must be the shiiznit to make her do that!!!" lol

I can see based on your past abusive experience why you'd feel insecure with it. But don't worry, if it feels great, enjoy it!!!! And never, ever let a guy hit you or abuse you. It's not normal, and it's NOT ok. I'm pretty sure if a guy hit me while I was giving him oral, I'd be sure to bite a little harder the next time.

Like I said, if it feels good, and he doesn't seem to mind, then ENJOY it. Sex can be messy, lots of fluid, sweat, etc. The more the merrier.