[bangbangbby]

Is it in the same spot for every woman?

I've always read/heard that certain positions (like doggy style or woman on top) are better for G-Spot stimulation, but I have never felt it that way.
I'm not sure if I have ever felt it. I think I might have...
For me, I get the best experiences in missionary position. My boyfriend thinks that's kind of weird and said that most women like to be on top because they can control everything and can orgasm easier. But I just can't orgasm while I'm on top.

So, how exactly do you find it? I've tried but I'm not really sure what it should feel like (even with reading about it). Is it possible that I don't have one or that mine is in a different spot than most?

[shaunzie89]

I still haven't been able to figure out where mine is at really. I'm guessing its supposed to be in the same spot for every woman. For me, the only way I can really feel it being hit is either during me on top or on our sides. It just feels slightly different from what I'm used to. I'm not even totally sure if that's what's being hit or not. LOL

Maybe you can just get g-spot stimulation from different positions that others. It doesn't mean anything is wrong with that.

[sarahlou]

Same here I have never found mine I think we all have them roughly in the same spot but I think some of us can respond better with stimulation and other through intercourse.

I find the spot gets hit best when I am on top or from behind lol x

[Rediscovered]

I am like the OP, my best orgasms come from him being on top and thrusting very slow and very deep. I like for him to go as deep as possible and then just hold it there (as many times as he can without having an orgasm himself, lol).

There is something about the head of the penis touching my cervix along with his pelvis pressing into my clitoris that just makes me insane. You don't get that full-on pressure when you are on top or doing it from behind.

[cinnamonheart88]

k so i am now a firm believer that every girl has one and they just have to believe it in.... i know it sounds a bit loopy but i think the g spot is physically there on all women but its effects exist in the woman's mind. the only analogy i can think of is think of a human.. without a spirit or brain the body is just a shell... I had a hard time figuring out how to ejaculate but with the patience of my boyfriend and with me relaxing and feeling more comfortable and learning to just let go it was able to happen.... its really hard but once you know what the feeling is you will be able to do it... the mind just works that way... its hard to explain... its a spot like just inside the vagina that feels spongy.. when you press on it after it has been stimulated (like after having sex for a while) it should feel like you have to pee... you actually dont and to make sure pee before hand... it feels that way because it comes out of the same tube and peeing is the closest thing your body does like it but its just like water... anyway just completely relax your pelvic muscles and you will figure it out... it really helps if your completely comfortable with your bf. I havent had an intense orgasm from it yet cuz its still new to me but i think once you can figure out how to ejaculate that can be next.... i hope this makes some sense lol!

[white ant]

G-spots??? How interesting!! I don't know about you guys but every position has it's own pleasure. We certainly enjoy different styles and what works for me might not work for you. Doggy might be a little naughty but very satisfying for others. what really works for me differs everytime, sometimes man on top nice and slow & deep, me on top, doggy or him carrying me agaist the wall. Why worry abiut the g-spot if you can enjoy making love rather than spending your time wondering where it is.

[Little]

The G-spot is a real part of the female anatomy, it is there, regardless of belief. If I believed I had a third arm, it would not make it so ... it would just make me silly.
While most descriptions place it at 2-3 inches inside the body and at a certain size (usually the same size as a walnut,) it can be farther from or closer to the opening of the vagina and can vary in size. Quite a few of my partners have "looked for" mine unsuccessfully because it's so close to the opening of my vagina. I don't really get G-spot stimulation from anything but targeted fingering, probably because of its position.
I always thought it wasn't all it's cracked up to be. It exists, but it's no magic button ... I don't think there can be such a thing as a magic button in sex. It's all about the total experience.

[sungem77]

the g spot is a real part of a women's anatomy, although it may be smaller or larger in different women. the orgasm from g spot stimulation is distinctively different than a clitoral orgasm. the best way for me to get there is reverse cowgirl, me on top facing away from him. when i first came this way, it really blew me away, then it didn't happen again for a while, but now the more i try to have an orgasm that way, the easier it has become.
practice practice practice!

[ItsASecret]

It exists, but it's no magic button ... I don't think there can be such a thing as a magic button in sex. It's all about the total experience.

Lol I wish it were the magic button, trying to orgasm within an hour would be no more!

But yeah the g-spot because not all women necessarily 'experience' it will cause many many many people to claim it simply does not exist. I know where mine is but it certainly does not provide any major gratification with any finger, vibrator, or penis stimulation. *sigh*