[LoveCatherine]

I can't get the hang of the girl on top position??? I know my guy really wants me on top but I don't have the confidence to do it, and have never done it properly before! I feel that even when I try he's pretending to enjoy it which just puts me off even more. I'm making myself look silly.

[thack]

chances are likely, he's not pretending. He wants you up there, he wants to be able to let his hands wander all over your body while you control the rhythm. Go slow, bend at the knees and put your feet back towards his knees, that way you will be very stable, and then, go at your own pace, find out what works for you and what doesn't.

I personally love it when my GF is on top of me, I get to see / touch everything, and SHE's the one making me feel good. its a lot of fun.

Good luck :P

[LanaBear]

I doubt he's pretending... Guys are visual, any show you are providing, I'm sure he's enjoying. Don't worry about what you look like because I'm sure he thinks you look a lot better than you think you do. Relax, don't over think it and have fun!

[Guest]

Lana Bear and thack are right. Just experiment,(the ladies here will give you good advice on exact position) and enjoy. I know some women, who don't like deep penetration, enjoy this most as they can rub their clitoris against the penis head and orgasm that way. My g/f enjoys this position for this reason. I like it because her breasts dangle down in front of me and I can get my hands all over them.

[LoveCatherine]

Up and Down? In and out?

[Texinator]

I feel that even when I try he's pretending to enjoy it

If he's got a goofy look on his face, it's probably cause he's close to passing out from all the blood leaving the Big Head and traveling.. uh.. elsewhere.

[LanaBear]

Up and Down? In and out?

Yes and Yes. Not sure what you are asking, there really is no right or wrong way. Just don't get too out of control where there is the possibility of him slipping out of you and then you slamming back down on his penis. That, supposedly, doesn't feel all the great for the guy.

[Hopeless Dork]

Yes and Yes. Not sure what you are asking, there really is no right or wrong way. Just don't get too out of control where there is the possibility of him slipping out of you and then you slamming back down on his penis. That, supposedly, doesn't feel all the great for the guy.

I was going to say EVERYTHING you just said Including the woopsie slip.. been there done that, quite the mood killer lol.

Up down, in out, side to side, round and round... whatever feels good to you is bound to feel good to him too.... just think of the way he strokes you when HE'S on top.

Just try to shake it up a little bit, if you push yourself flush against his body and stay there... it can create less sensations so be sure to lift up occasionally so that he can feel the penetration (and you as well) in the most effective ways.

[StillLearnin]

Then when you get comfortable with Cowgirl, try out Reverse Cowgirl. It's like doggie with him laying down. Just have fun with it, and you'll be good.

[maverick]

I'm sure that you don't look silly to your SO. You look beautiful and hot. Ask him to put his hands on your hips and guide you. It's OK for him to thrust while you are on top too. There is no right or wrong way to do this as long as it feels good to you both. Speaking of which, don't discount your own pleasure while riding. Many women like this position since they can control the action regarding what feels good to them. He won't mind, trust me.