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  • eleni
    Senior Member
    • Feb 2010
    • 179

    didnt edit my post in time -

    he needs to be more specific.
    if he just wants you to talk dirty to him
    and you turn up with a wartenburg wheel (my awesome new toy!) a strap on and zip ties
    he's going to run for the hills

    x
    'so why care for these petty obsessions? your designer heart still beats with common blood. and what if you could have genetic perfection? would you change who you are if you could?'

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    • Guest

      i have no idea what you fiance wants. because nasty sex differs from one person to another. maybe you can try role playing for this kind of sex.

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      • Futureboy
        Veteran Member
        • Nov 2009
        • 331

        Hi Sassi Classi

        All of the above is correct you need to find out what he wants, If he wants something thats fairly extreme he might not want to ask you he loves you and doesn't want to degrade you.
        I guess if you say lets go out for dinner and you say what do you fancy, he'll be a bit vague and say something really nice.

        To get over the subjectivity I suggest you make him a nice meal at home nothing heavy and not more than a glass of wine.

        As he's finishing of his dinner produce a little 'dessert' menu

        Nasty Girl Dessert Menu:

        Option 1
        Chocolate Muffin Stuffin'

        Your favourite moist Tasty covered in a sauce of your choosing

        Option 2
        Banana Slit

        A hard c**k slid between crotchless panties

        Option 3
        Licorish whip

        A pvc clad dominatrix to tie you up and whip you

        Option 4
        Custard Tart

        A dirty girl, bring your own sauce

        Use you best descriptive language as this will get him going big time

        You get the idea it think you can be pretty specific I havent been 'cos there are young people who read this stuff too. Only put stuff in you are prepared to do and enjoy. It may be his birthday but if you dont enjoy it he wont enjoy it that much

        For what it's worth nasty for me is:
        Watching you pee, anal licking and penetrating, rough sex, shaving, s+m, ****ty dress up (full slap and some underwear from a adult shop, anything where the girl is in control but very rude. Nasty can be submissive but you need to be very specific with the rules you set the rules in your menu as you are not in control. PS if you are submissive agree a safe word and make sure he knows it


        Good luck and what ever you try please give feedback so we can pass on what works in the future



        Sorry cant remember which words are ok and which ones are not

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        • sassi_classi
          Member
          • Jun 2010
          • 17

          O wow thanks i really like the nasty girl menu and i will let you know what i decide

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          • Joey
            Veteran Member
            • Feb 2010
            • 478

            HAHA!! that menu is AAAAAAA-mazing!!! im actually quite hungry now which is a bit random.

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            • emptypea2001
              Member
              • Feb 2010
              • 45

              Nasty sex ideas

              From what i've read here, this is what I would recommend: He wants you to take full control in be in charge start to finish (at least this one time). Given that as a basis, you probably know what would do the job but I would recommend you start the evening with a light dinner, you wearing seductive makeup and dress provocatively - your breasts almost exposed. Keep lights low with candles but make sure he can see everything. Give him casual, suggestive caresses during dinner then casually tell him things are going to have to start moving along because you're on your third pair of panties and these are already soaked through. You could taunt him by asking if he is man enough to safisfy you because you're in the mood for some strong (expletive deleted). Taunt him some more by tellling him that you have been aching to get yourself off all day and if he can't perform to your satisfaction, that is exactly what you are going to do right in front of him. Exuse yourself and be gone too long. Go change into something he has never seen, maybe crotchless. When you reappear, become very assertive, ripping off his shirt, pushing him back and rubbing your crotch against his mouth. Take off his pants and just rub yourself against him, don't let his hands get a hold of you and take over - remember that you are in charge. In fact, consider tying his hands in advance. Get him in a position where he is only there for your pleasure and when you are ready - mount him and ride him until you get off. Stop before he cums. Give it a few minutes and repeat (if you're up to it) - the idea being to keep brining him to the edge of orgasm but stopping before he gets there. By the third or fourth time of taking him to the edge he will be begging to cum, then just jerk him very very slowly or make him do it himself.
              I guarantee this will blow his mind and give him a birthday he will never forget.

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              • Nwaba
                Member
                • May 2010
                • 11

                I totally disagree with you all.You have to be imaginative and do what you have never done to him.All he needs is a surprise in bed as a birthday gift.So you have to think hard and fast.Wish you the best.

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                • ItsASecret
                  APRIL 2011 POSTER OF THE MONTH
                  • Apr 2009
                  • 3721

                  I totally disagree with you all.You have to be imaginative and do what you have never done to him.All he needs is a surprise in bed as a birthday gift.So you have to think hard and fast.
                  Uh that is basically what people are posting...saying things that could be a surprise for him, different acts that they may have never done before, or completely imaginative situations.

                  My opinion of 'nasty sex' is simply turning on a hardcore porno and acting like that. Screaming, pulling hair, asking to be treated like a dirty s***, angry sex-without the anger lol, going into a porn star attitude...maybe even the porn star look with fake nails, hair, and relatively uncomfortable heels. Go all out.
                  There are those who believe that dictionaries should not merely reflect the times but also protect English from the mindless assaults of the trendy.

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                  • sassi_classi
                    Member
                    • Jun 2010
                    • 17

                    Omg emptipea that is wow lol ummmm thanks i think i might have to drink i little im not sure i can be that aggresive but i will try.it seems like it will be alot of fun and i think he will love it aside from just randomly just putting my stuff in his face lol thanks.


                    to the porno i havent got quit comfortable even watching them yet. i have only seen one so the porn star act will have to wait.

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                    • WildChild
                      Banned
                      • Sep 2008
                      • 14142

                      In a caring relationship between consenting adults there is no such thing as "nasty" sex.
                      But what would he think is ?

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