ok so my fiancee' said that he wanted nasty sex for his birthday.which is in a few weeks and i have no idea what to do. does anyone have any ideas cause im not sure what exactly nasty is i pretty much stick to the basics. help
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Dirty talk, spanking, 69, etc ...all pretty mild but he would probably like it since you normally just do the basic stuff. -
I pretty much do all that except the talking unless he telling me what to say. i guess i should have said something nasty but out of the ordinary i guess. like what comes after spanking, 69, anal,and any type of oral i guess. what is nastier than that?Comment
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Maybe he wants bondage? I think you're going to have to pry him a little to get him to tell you. Or just give him free reign (with in reason, of course) to do what he wants...if you're up for that.Comment
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ask him to tell you exactly what he wants.
its the only way to know exactly how 'nasty' he wants you to be
and the only way to find out if what he wants is something you'd be comfortable with doing.
im the queen of nasty sex so if you can find out what kind of thing he wants i can probably help
(embarassed blush)'so why care for these petty obsessions? your designer heart still beats with common blood. and what if you could have genetic perfection? would you change who you are if you could?'Comment
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Ok eleni thanks i asked him and he said he never really thought about it he just know he wants something nasty. so could you give me some ideas or direction?Comment
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Haha.
How does he expect you to come up with something when you're new to this and he doesn't even know what he's looking for?
Make him think, girl!Comment
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He needs to tell you what nasty is...
Ask him again, explore some things together. You can't read his mind. Bondage, role play, strip tease, teasing him in general in erotic lingerie, pick up a riding crop or flogger, whipped cream, chocolate syrup, ice, toys, dp, etc.
Limitless really, but he needs to give you an idea of what nasty is to him.Comment
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I agree with all the comments above! Hes needs to tell you what his 'nasty sex' actually includes.
One of my guy mates refers anal sex as 'nasty sex'.[FONT="Comic Sans MS"][SIZE="2"][COLOR="DeepSkyBlue"]"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - Chardonnay in one hand - Chocolate in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and screaming WOO-HOO what a ride!!"[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT="Palatino Linotype"][SIZE="4"][COLOR="SandyBrown"]"I dream about being with you forever." - Twilight[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT]Comment
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he wants it so he has to come up with the general vicinity of what he wants!
its not fair for you to be trying something you have no idea of if its not the right thing.
x'so why care for these petty obsessions? your designer heart still beats with common blood. and what if you could have genetic perfection? would you change who you are if you could?'Comment
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