[herbie]

Invite him to come with you to a sex toy shop..... actually dont invite him tell him he is driving you to a sex shop together you can have some fun looking around maybe start out buying a vib/dildo im sure he will be exited at this then take him home after some fun talk and drinks invite him to watch your nasty sex show start by pleasuring yourself infront of him then invite him to join in...... im possitive he will like this ....ps. give him a little guidence a long the way ......you must report back OK have fun

[thack]

In a caring relationship between consenting adults there is no such thing as "nasty" sex.
But what would he think is ?

I agree here, nasty is a term used just to describe a type of sex outside the normal realm of play. IF my SO asked me for that, I would pretty much look at whats not normal, heavy petting in a secluded dinner booth at a restaurant, maybe feeling each other up in an elevator,(just to keep the night hot), then moving to the house, pressing her up against the door for a deep kiss like I couldn't wait to get her out of her clothes. I'd have purchased something sexy (since I know her size!) and have it laid out in the bathroom and instruct her to go put it on. She would come out and I would probably have some adult film on the TV, and then just take it from there. Push the envelope, lots of hands, rubbing, sucking, probing, tongue - fingers - (other extremities lol) - toys. And I would pretty much let her do whatever she wanted to, because with her I dont worry about anything. We both have all ready voiced we dont want fecal matter, peeing, or pain involved in our sex life. SO, other than that, each others bodies are 100% fair game.

just a thought, IDK, nasty is very vague and extremely open to interpretation.