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  • jvb27
    Junior Member
    • Jun 2010
    • 1

    Too wet during sex...

    Im 22 years old and recently started having sex with my boyfriend. Its been great but my only problem is that ive been getting so wet that his sheets get stained almost everytime im on the bottom. It has never happened with any other guy. I know a lot of guys think its hot when girls are really wet but its just uncomfortable for me and now its beginning to effect our sex life. Last night i had to just stop in the middle of sex because it was so wet i could barely feel anything. Does anyone have any advice?
  • Sassysister
    Junior Member
    • Jun 2010
    • 6

    Wetness is a positive effect of sex, it's not something you want to go away. It's your bodies way of reacting to the sensations it's experiencing. If more sensation is what you are desiring, then try different positions for more sensation.

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    • maverick
      Senior Member
      • Dec 2009
      • 130

      This topic comes up from time to time. You are young, hot, and sexually excited, so lots of wetness is normal. Is your boyfriend complaining? Not many men do. If the wet sheets bother you, put a folded towel under your bottom before you start. if things get too slippery during sex, just stop and wipe yourself and him dry and start over. But I have to tell you that in my male mind, wet and sloppy sex is awesome sex!

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      • thack
        Senior Member
        • Sep 2008
        • 166

        towels are a beautiful thing, other than that if its desensitizing you, dab off with a dry wrag or something, its not a health concern, just really means you are into each other!
        "We easily see what is done to us,
        Before we see what we are doing to our mate!"

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        • emptypea2001
          Member
          • Feb 2010
          • 45

          Nothing to fix here, just bring towels or keep them nearby.

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          • morgandy
            Member
            • Jun 2010
            • 13

            i have the same issue, i won't call it a problem because every man I've ever been with finds it a total turn on. My solution for desensitization is just to simply do as stated above and just wipe some off with a towel

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