[maverick]

You should not be depressed about this and certainly not suicidal. 4" is plenty to satisfy a woman and plenty to conceive children. Within the entire scope of nationalities & ethnic origins, you fall into the normal range.

A friend of mine went through a very vulnerable stage. His hot, young wife left him and he was a mess. About that time one lady at work started to harrass him. She was known for a smart (potty) moutn and would make comments on his package every time she saw him. Now this girl had never even seen him naked, but the harassment was really driving him nuts. We told him, you've just got to fire back at her. Don't let her get under your skin. He took our advice. The next time she made a comment he responded, "I'll bet you $20 you can't say "thank you" with it in your mouth." She would not take the bet and never commented on his package again.

You may need to adopt the same tactic. There is nothing wrong with you with the possible exception that you may have low self-esteem and that you seem inclined to want to have sex with loser chicks. Find yourself a real woman that cares about you and your package will be the best she has ever had.

[Guest]

Well said maverick. Also, whenever a woman says that you have a small penis, you can always say it's larger than hers ! Seriously, the ladies here will,and have, told you that there are other ways, often more pleasurable for the woman, that you can use to satisfy your lover. One woman once said to me " I don't know about a 12 inch (edit), what I'd like is a 12 inch tongue!!!

[Jex]

Dontknow, Jexy here.
This might sound wierd to anyone who reads this but i actually like smaller penis', it's much more of a turn on for me

[humdrum4]

I am 75 yrs. I am about your size. For more than half my life I was extremely sensitive about the size of my penis. Boy oh boy, if I could just do it again! In my teens and 20s I could get hard almost by thinking about it. If I could just go back to those times I would just LOVE to find girls who would laugh at me, as long as they let me do it anyway! I know this is impossible, and I'm 99.9% certain I could not have done it then, but DON'T TAKE YOURSELF SO SERIOUSLY!

[jns]

Humdrum4, I'll bet in the years since your 20s you have learned a lot of things about relationships and women that you didn't know then. Oh, to have the wisdom of age and the body and vibrancy of youth.

[humdrum4]

Humdrum4, I'll bet in the years since your 20s you have learned a lot of things about relationships and women that you didn't know then. Oh, to have the wisdom of age and the body and vibrancy of youth.

Well, if I did it's not showing, still don't have a wife or girlfriend. And I do blame SOME of my problems on lack of sexual confidence in my early years. Still don't have the confidence, but now I just don't give a .

[Texasred]

Let me just say straight out that not all girls are like that!
In fact, you may have found a very sure way of determining which girls (or women...) you need not waste any more time on! This could save you a lot of time, expense, and heartache in the long run.
Look on the bright side: Now you don't ever have to wonder if those girls are too shallow for words - you know for sure they are!
And as the ladies on this site have said many times, it's not the size that matters so much as what you do with it.

[Magnetism]

Oh gosh, no! I'm so sorry you had to meet girls who treated you like that. It looks like they have some issues about themselves.

For women who love giving oral sex, 4 to 4.5 is good where you don't have to worry about gag reflex. It's easier to deepthroat.

It's less intimidating and you don't have to worry about pain during penetration.

Some say that men with smaller penises make better lovers, because they've learned to become more talented at oral, manual stimulation, etc.

I'm not trying to make you feel better. I'm being honest.

If you don't feel good about yourself, you might be attracting women that reinforce that feeling When we feel good about ourselves, we attract people who like us for who we are.

[Magnetism]

if it makes you feel better, the average length of a vagina is only about 4 inches or so.

if you're too big, you'll hurt the lady.

My point exactly.