[MARIA D GREAT]

aslaam o alaikum
girls em toooooo much tensed bcz i got married recently a month agon em confused
em not enjoying the sex mean while my husband enjoys iti dnt knw how to enjoy it

[MARIA D GREAT]

i also wana enjoy sex but how
i wana enjoy it like my husband do but how

[Joey]

Have you spoken to your husband about what you like in the bedroom?

[WildChild]

I assume you had little or no sexual experience before you were married?
Your mind and body need time to prepare to enjoy sex. This means being aroused before you start intercourse. Many things from your husband can help this; gentle, loving touches, loving words, kisses on your lips, neck, breasts, all over your body. He can use his hangs to stimulate your clitoris (you may need to use some lubrication to help start things going)
Is your vagina good and wet before he enters you? This is very important as you will not only not enjoy it if you aren't really wet but it can hurt you and make a painful experience.

Is your husband willing to talk with you about this and to try different things to help you feel sexy and to desire him?

[MARIA D GREAT]

yes my huby is willing to talk abt this
no i havnt told abt my sex experince to him i feel shy
yes ma vigina is wet during intercourse
no i dnt have any type of sex experince b4 mariage
do girls als release sumthng frm there vigina like boys do
i need guide bcz my huby also dnt have any experince abt sex

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Maria, welcome to the Forum.

Simply put... It's like riding a bike, you fall off, get up, fall off, and one day your an expert

You can't enjoy something you've never experienced before, your still learning the ropes.

Relax, breathe, look him in they eyes, feel the love, let yourself go, feel the flow of it and experience...

The fact you get wet is good. As for orgasms, that will come once you learn to feel the experience and bond with your husband and if he doesn't get that, explain that to him.

A man can enjoy it, straight away.. He married you and loves you, he probably masterbated before he married you now he's complete. It takes time to work out the emotions, feelings, love...

Just relax and stop trying to get it all in one go, orgasms, etc.. it will happen... in love.

CW

[jns]

do girls als release sumthng frm there vigina like boys do
i need guide bcz my huby also dnt have any experince abt sex

Girls get wet when they are aroused. According to other threads, many can also have a more voluminous liquid release (not pee) with proper stimulation. Orgasming is something many women strive for. Can you bring yourself to orgasm? If not, maybe he and you can learn how to do it together. If you can, you can teach him how to do it in a way that is good for you. He needs to go slow and be gentle while learning how to stimulate you. For a clitoral orgasm, sometime you or he have to start with indirect stimulation, since direct stimulation could be painful.

[Mes T]

It seems that you need to start with the basics, including anatomy. Get some books and start studying, it doesn't have to be so mysterious!

[MARIA D GREAT]

reading books 4 me is boring i wana know directly frm u peeps
is anthing wrong in me or ma huby or it is normal in start

[CHANDLERS WISH]

We are not peeps nothing is wrong with you or hubby, but please read the answers already given to you, as it seems you aren't reading replies that can help you .. But they can.

CW