[RosePetal]

Hi All,

me and my Boyfriend have started to get intimate - we havent had sex just yet but we have done everything else. we do a lot of foreplay but i have never came - will you have to have sexual intercourse in order to cum?

[LanaBear]

Absolutely not.

Do you orgasm through foreplay?

[RosePetal]

well yes kinda i do have a lot of pleasure when we foreplay

[WildChild]

Sweetie you can orgasm just thinking - well, I can. You can orgasm from the vibration of the car when driving (works even better in a truck maybe that's why they've gotten so popular). You can orgasm from doing kegels, from kissing, touching, fingering. There is a world of orgasms out there just waiting for you - have at it.

[SaharaJim]

"Advanced Technique" there i think WC....and you left out sitting on a tennis ball on the back of a motorcycle. ;o). But for our young friend here she might want to use the forum search on "learning to orgasm". There are numerous thread from some very "knowledgible" Ladies on teaching your body to respond first to self-stimulation and then to a partner's efforts.

[LadyC]

Sweetie you can orgasm just thinking - well, I can. You can orgasm from the vibration of the car when driving (works even better in a truck maybe that's why they've gotten so popular). You can orgasm from doing kegels, from kissing, touching, fingering. There is a world of orgasms out there just waiting for you - have at it.

I hope I am not getting away too much from the orignal question, but has anyone ever had an orgasm in their sleep and awoke to find out it was happening in real life? I know men equate this to wet dreams, but I never knew women did this. I know it sounds crazy, but in my dream I don't think I was actually doing anything sexual. I first experienced this in my first pregnancy. As for your answer RosePetal like everyone has already stated you don't have to have intercourse to cum!! Definitely not! . . .

[WildChild]

"Advanced Technique" there i think WC....and you left out sitting on a tennis ball on the back of a motorcycle. ;o). But for our young friend here she might want to use the forum search on "learning to orgasm". There are numerous thread from some very "knowledgible" Ladies on teaching your body to respond first to self-stimulation and then to a partner's efforts.

Not advanced at all. I bet many women experience this in a vehicle but don't recognize it as an orgasm. I think of them as mini treats.
I recommend several book in my thread for Books on Sex. The Orgasm Loop is good one. There are a number of books on sex for one as well. Learning to orgasm on your own is a good place to start

[pinkFlames]

I hope I am not getting away too much from the orignal question, but has anyone ever had an orgasm in their sleep and awoke to find out it was happening in real life? I know men equate this to wet dreams, but I never knew women did this. I know it sounds crazy, but in my dream I don't think I was actually doing anything sexual. I first experienced this in my first pregnancy. As for your answer RosePetal like everyone has already stated you don't have to have intercourse to cum!! Definitely not! . . .

I've orgasmed in my sleep before. In recent years I've started to orgasm very easily. My boyfriend can make me orgasm from as little as stroking my wrist.

[PandaPaws]

My boyfriend can make me orgasm from as little as stroking my wrist.

WOW... that is just like foreign to me, as my bf can do just about anything under the sun to me, make me feel awesome, and I still can't orgasm. Very frustrating for both of us, although we kind of try to ignore it and accept it. The wrist though, that is a new one for me.

[pinkFlames]

WOW... that is just like foreign to me, as my bf can do just about anything under the sun to me, make me feel awesome, and I still can't orgasm. Very frustrating for both of us, although we kind of try to ignore it and accept it. The wrist though, that is a new one for me.

It's fairly new to me too. Before, I would pretty much only orgasm from direct clitoral stimulation but since I've been in this relationship I can orgasm ridiculously easy.