[JRod]

LADIES CHIME IN HERE PLEASE. Enough talk about "Am I normal? Am I average? Am I BIG?"- Let me put a different twist on it. You see woman do the pinky sign or the thumb to index finger when referring to a small penis. So here is my question. Is this literal? Are the Really guys out there with 2-4 inch pencil peckers? Or what are you Really saying? How common is it? Decode these hand signals haha.

[WildChild]

Never heard of these hand signals.
But yes there are men who's penis never grew in puberty. I'd venture a guess that if our social norms allowed us to be more open about our bodies, that timely medical intervention might have been possible. But since we learn from an early age not to show or look and the doc probably only sees them flacid, they fall through the cracks.
I don't know how common this is, I've dated one guy who had this characturistic. Judging from my own male child, I'd say his penis was about the size of a typical 4 to 6 yr old boy.

[WildChild]

Oh, I'd guess these hand signals may reflect more about a guy's behavior and mental state than his actual physical penis size.

[LanaBear]

Generally, yes, that hand signal means the guy is generally small. But, just like men, the more mature a woman gets, the more she grows out of using hand signals to indicate size to her girlfriends, or she's just incredibly immature. Penis size is relative, as one person's small can be another person's perfect size.

I have had sex with a guy with an incredibly small penis before. Probably equivalent to WC's assessment of the man she dated.

[JRod]

Great feed back ladies. WC you are correct. Most of us are pretty immature not to mention insecure especially when it comes to the size topic. Thanks porn industry lol. LB, I have to say you make a good point as to size being relative. As I'd love to be bigger, I'm thankful I'm not "pinky penis". I have experienced woman that it was a little big for as well as the opposite. So I guess that makes me average. Like I said initially I guess I was just wondering if <5 inches erect actually existed. I was watching a movie last night where the girl told her gf that here ex was small and did the pinky sign. Guess that's what prompted this :-)

[LanaBear]

Somewhere around here, there is a post where someone states... An eager mouth and nimble fingers are more preferable to a perfect size penis.

[JRod]

I like that. Good point!

[buckman]

My penis looks small when hard its like 6.8 inches and 5 1/2 around but I guess its a ok size

[ItsASecret]

Never heard of these hand signals

The signal is literally stick your picky up while the other fingers are down and the length of the pinky finger is the length of his penis. Or when it comes to the thumb/index fingers it literally make them almost touch as though you are showing someone how long 4 inches is. Not really a fancy hand signal lol. But it is used for comical communication...girls sitting down for a coffee joking about how Joe Shmoe didn't please her because of his pencil penis. I do not have it in me to make fun of someone for something they are born with, but I have seen these gestures and comments made extensively in school. Quite pathetic really.

But yes there are going to be men with a penis in the 2-4 inch range because of medical reasons or simple 'bad genes'. Nothing they can do about it so I do not like it when people are made fun of because of this.

[eleni]

yeah the signals mainly refer to behaviour as well.
i've never said/done anything remotely like that when the guy wasnt being a nasty person.
its a nice catch all insult. (childish though it may be)

there are certainly guys with penis length of a couple of inches when erect.
i saw a documentary about it, and i've come into contact with a few as well
it doesnt matter really what size it is - its what you do with it that counts!

yeah lanabear had the best point.