[kaz83]

Basically i'm after any positions for tall men and short women, missionary is out because I end up under is armpit, we always seem to spoon and it's getting very boring! I won't do anal and I am really self concious to not really into going ontop, any help really appreciated

[kygirl]

Cowgirl is def the easiest or reverse cowgirl. I know you are self conscious but trust me he'll enjoy it. If you're self conscious about a particular area you could wear something that would strategically cover that area. I also found when I was dating someone with about hte same height difference that sitting up worked well. It also helps make it seem like you're not quite so on display if you have a chair or something like that?

[maverick]

I'll never understand why women are self conscious about being on top. Men love this position and it can be great for the woman too. You are in the driver's seat and can totally control the flow of things as well as your own personal pleasure. He will love the view!

Other non-girl-on-top positions that can work for you are doggie (standard or downward), him seated/you in his lap (either straddling or facing away), and a 69 for mutual oral pleasure. The old kitchen table/countertop can be a nice variation too. For a variation of missionary, place your legs over his shoulders, that makes it pretty much impossible for your head to wind up in his armpit.

[ItsASecret]

I am only 5 foot and I find even being on top to be difficult since my legs are so short and he is big downstairs so I literally cannot sit flat and me raising my hips up a bit hardly makes a difference to 'control the depth'. However I do find that from behind is simple, as well as being on your side in the spooning position.

[jns]

Try edge of bed or furniture positions. Standing for me is very intense as my legs get wobbly on the approach of climax. Doggy style can also work with the woman over the edge of the bed and the guy standing. Also sideways with the guy straddling her lower leg. Use a chair or something for a leg rest if her lower leg gets tired.

[sallywi2003]

I agree try doggy style it is wonderful it feels great and the height difference will not matter. Riding the horse from on top is wonderful I know you are self conscious but it is a wonderful position you are under total control which I like and I feel free and not confined. Give it a try you may like it. You could always wear lingere on top to cover up if you wanted.

[kaz83]

Thanks, I guess it's a but limited but we do sideways normally, I have tried ontop eventhough I don't like it, he can't last very long so I am beginning to like it a little more!

[Texasred]

... I have tried ontop eventhough I don't like it, he can't last very long ...!

He can't last very long - that should tell you a little bit about how much he likes the view!
I'm 6'-4, my good friend is 5'-2, and we've also found as kygirl said, sitting facing each other is very nice and makes height differences just sort of disappear.
And then there is the kitchen counter, and the swimming pool, and....

Pardon me while I go take a quick cold shower!

[kaz83]

We have tried swimming pool, wasn't that great but thanks for all your suggestions