[pinkgurl55]

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My boyfriend has NOT been in the mood latley so I am mastubating to cope. I try to get to an orgasm, but nothing ever seems to work. Its like a lot of work for nothing. Any tips on how to get a GOOD orgasm from masturbating without use of sex toys??

[mellybelly]

why don't you want to use a toy..i feel thats the only way i can do it.. i've never done it without one

[bec10]

I don't care for toys myself. Are you well lubricated? And make sure you've found your spot, every girl's got the one spot that just makes her explode!

[reesecup]

My newest way to masterbate that gives an INTENSE orgasm is in the shower...but not just any shower, you must have a detachable shower head with different pulsating sprays. I use the spray that beats down in pulses (like a rain shower) and spread my lips open and allow the water to pulsate against my clit. Ladies...I'm talking about a feeling that will make you want to pass out! Now careful, this intense orgasm can cause problems...because when your significant other does go down on you, your orgasm won't be as strong and it can cause you to feel let down.

But using your shower head, no lubrication is needed, just lean against the shower, close your eyes and allow the feeling to overwhelm you.

[tinkerbell930]

I would make sure you have lots of lubrication and no interruptions....practice makes perfect. Just don't get frustrated and be gentle to yourself! You might try doing it in front of your boyfriend to get him back in the mood. That is always a fantasy for a guy!

[CHOCOLATEGODESS]

showerheads

I tried that a few months ago and can't stop that shower head is amazing WOW! you ladies should try it the feeling is very stimulating

[CHOCOLATEGODESS]

with the pulsating water,and it hits you in that special area all you can say is aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.

[sepiolida]

I fourth the awesomeness of detachable shower head orgasms.
Otherwise, try stimulating your anus while you play with your clit. That works for a lot of girls.

[lauralight]

I like

having a regular rubber dildo penetrating, and then masturbating my clit at the same time.

[swollmommy]

just a bath

If you don't have a detachable shower head just slide your butt all the way to the front of the bath tub and spread your legs while the bath water is running. I've been doing that since I was 11