[AngelicBunny]

I read on wikipedia that if there's a lot of tension built up, then the orgasm is much better (I think it's called orgasm control?) it's where you almost get an orgasm but stop anything stimulating, then continuing shortly after. When you go all the way, it's supposed to be a really intense feeling. I have yet to try this out with my bf XD and I think it works for masturbation too... haven't been on wiki in a while XD

[usndiver]

i think you need more outside stimulation, to get you fired up. either some girly porn,some mags or even reading some of the stories online.
i think it your mind thats holding you back, not your body.

[RainbowDinosaurs]

If you don't have a detachable shower head just slide your butt all the way to the front of the bath tub and spread your legs while the bath water is running. I've been doing that since I was 11

Bwahahaha.
Me too! x]
It's amazing.
And so simple.
And I started so young.
But I've stopped, just recently.
Though, it was amazing.

[megm]

i used my fingers and i never tried toys and i agreed try the shower head with different pulsating sprays!!!

[Texasred]

... You might try doing it in front of your boyfriend to get him back in the mood. That is always a fantasy for a guy!

Why, yes; yes it is!

[mizkittycat]

i find it easier to do when my mind is thinking about stuff that turns me on, and i've never used sex toys and haven't really thought about it tbh :]

[Millania]

thats funny that us women experience similar things without actually learning how to-u just try new things-u know I dont even know how the heck I discovered the tub thing(spread legs n let water fall in between legs) I was sooo young! like 11 also!
I think it all started with a pool jet when I was really young(my first orgsm) I was like UM what the heck was that? that was awesome!
I think I stopped at age 15 because I was desensitising myself and couldnt get off with just my fingers alone anymore(after I did the tub thing for so long)
so now I only need my fingers, and thankfully only about once a month if that..

[LadyDstrike]

lol oh my gosh! you women are freakin crazy i love it!!! me personally i tried playing with myself a lot alone (obviously) i let my fingers wander where they wanted in btwn my legs first it would get so over-whelming that I'd stop then I got to the point of where I wanted to cum & feel good! a couple times I watched myself in a mirror & dang I looked Secksi lol but that was when I was single-le sigh* Here & there when my fiance is work I start looking at some nude pics I took of him & grab out my bullet & imagine I'm loving him to hold me over til he gets home! Then I take him hostage & you know the rest! lmao...