[CHANDLERS WISH]

1.ALL ELSE HELD EQUAL...what size does the average women prefer/is bigger better???
-same emotional connection, sexual experience, willingness to please u, etc.

Sandman, all else held equal... What does size got to do, got to do with it, oh that's What's love got to do, got to do with it.. At my age? I've experienced a few, what I found is a man with a big one, thinks his shirt doesn't stink and he makes a discusting boyfriend, ages, can't find the one, because he thinks only with his .... So, no emotional connection.. Yes, sexual experience, and no, occasional wants to please if his ego is burnt....



2. who is satisfied with average???
-i consider myself a catch and therefore want a woman who i consider to be above average, physically, mentally, and emotionally; i also know that people tend to couple up with people who are on there level of attractiveness...on the 1 to 10 scale im looking for 7 to 10's and feel like "just an average size penis" would be beneath them??? is that accurate???


Man, I hate these questions It is firstly, attraction to the person, then you fall for them, then you don't care about size, and you communicate with your wants, desires and theirs, you are in sinc with each other because, no man wants too feel to small, too big, just right, goldy locks, he wants to feel a bond, that special feeling of connections, that makes him feel like a man...

If any woman judges on "size" then it's chemistry they want sex, good sex, and suspect that size will give it to them, as they aren't ready for a relationship, they view sex as the bee all and end all... I will get bashed for that one Having said that therefore, yes, sex is highly important but isn't it a case of bonding? Whether it's sex only or in love, a bond of some description with the person you are sleeping with.... Nothing to do with size, there, I covered......:P

3. i know that girls talk about their guys size in alot of detail; if something doesn't matter, why all the comparing of notes???

With age comes wisdom... To me, what is between the sheets stays between the sheets, it's moralistic for "me" to keep that side of my life personal... That's me, I'm not judging... But, if I go back to 20? Yes, girls always talk, they are excited about what's going on, in love or so they think and talk about everything to their girlfriends and mostly, what happens is one of their girlfriends wants what she has and so.. she goes for it, and so.. they end up no longer friends and she loses her man...

My thoughts therefore, ? Never, ever, discuss.. It's your little world of joy to enjoy..

CW

[Guest]

Shouldn't we be "measuring" the depth of the vagina? I don't care how "big" you are, if you don't have any place for it to fit, then what's the point?

I have always considered myself average. Based on what I've read here, perhaps I am a bit more than average when it comes to size. All I know for sure is that I'm a very good "fit" with the woman I love and there isn't anything better than that (in my opinion).

Besides, it's not the size of the boat butt the motion in the ocean that matters!

[Hopeless Dork]

1.ALL ELSE HELD EQUAL...what size does the average women prefer/is bigger better???
-same emotional connection, sexual experience, willingness to please u, etc.

All things are NEVER equal as far as same emotional connection, sexual experience and willingness to please you... so that question isn't at all realistic to answer. Guys are so much more than their penis size and so different in how they treat you and those are the things that matter most. Just like men, women prefer to be with a man they are attracted to over the size of his penis. Would you seriously consider someone hideous to you that had a tighter vagina over a woman that was your fantasy in ever way with a looser one? I don't know why guys think having a big penis would be the equalizer... to any other misgiving... it isnt.

2. who is satisfied with average???
-i consider myself a catch and therefore want a woman who i consider to be above average, physically, mentally, and emotionally; i also know that people tend to couple up with people who are on there level of attractiveness...on the 1 to 10 scale im looking for 7 to 10's and feel like "just an average size penis" would be beneath them??? is that accurate???

Like tends to attract like ... if you are being superficial in your choices... there is a good chance that the ones you are targetting are superficial as well and that being the case an average sized penis may well be beneath them. So would an average bank account, average car etc. It seriously makes my stomach cringe to here people rate human beings by numbers and have a qualifying one.

3. i know that girls talk about their guys size in alot of detail; if something doesn't matter, why all the comparing of notes???

Um... again, depends on the girls you are talking to. My boyfriend has an ABOVE average penis size and I've never sat around talking about it to ANY of my friends. I've mentioned the fact that he makes me feel amazing... and that is irrespective to his size. I adore his penis because its his. The fact that its bigger doesn't make me love it any more than I would have otherwise. Girls will talk about penis size sometimes just as a payback for all the body insecurities we have to face from our head to toe, guys tend to only have one area that they are insecure about -- women know that and will play that up at times.

I've never hear a friend of mine mention an 'average penis'... the only time I've ever heard a girl mention her mans size is when she was reffering to something crazy huge or crazy small... and I've never heard a woman in love thats said her boyfriend had a small penis -- they don't even see it that way when their heart is all in and the guy makes them feel good. Its only usually after he's wronged them in some way will they point to the fact 'oh he was small anyway'... and that could just be hurt feelings talking.But I've never heard someone say... you know his penis is just too average for me. I mean he is falling within the guidlines of the majority of all men... thats rediculous I am "9" I deserve and all star porn worthy penis.

[budd]

I'm guessing it's the same for women as for men. Size of body parts are important for some people...but for the majority, it's all the other things about the person that are important first. Those other things and the willingness to please and be connected are far more important than the size of man's penis, woman's breasts or waist.

As I'm getting older, I think these things seem more important when we are younger. Then you start doing a little growing up and seeing what's really important in life. Still, it's understandable that both men and women sometimes feel inadequate with all of the media and popular culture that makes certain shallow things seem more important then they really are.

[WildChild]

1.ALL ELSE HELD EQUAL...what size does the average women prefer/is bigger better???
-same emotional connection, sexual experience, willingness to please u, etc.

Define "average" woman. We are all different. If I am emotionally connected with a man I can cum from kissing and once aroused with him the act of penetration has gotten me to cum. At that point he not even actually inside me. Size isn't the issue. I'm a mature woman and I do prefer an experienced lover, one who listens is really nice although not many men actually do.

2. who is satisfied with average???
-i consider myself a catch and therefore want a woman who i consider to be above average, physically, mentally, and emotionally; i also know that people tend to couple up with people who are on there level of attractiveness...on the 1 to 10 scale im looking for 7 to 10's and feel like "just an average size penis" would be beneath them??? is that accurate???

Balderdash. I know some amazing women in looks and professional success who have tied themselves some simply awful men. I also know some who have wonderful men in their lives. Only really superficial people look at only looks. What we are attracted to and are willing to live with probably has more to do with what we grew up with and were taught to tollerate or expect. Since we women don't have a clue what size your penis is when we meet you and first get to know you, it certainly can't be an initial factor at all. A well endowed man who is a jerk is just that, a well endowed jerk, with jerk being the operative word. A man who connects, makes us feel special and valued, who treats us with respect and values not just our looks but our intelligence and capabilities is going to win out over others.

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3. i know that girls talk about their guys size in alot of detail; if something doesn't matter, why all the comparing of notes???

WOMEN don't, girls might, I don't know. I have very rarely heard any woman comment on a man's penis size. In the cases when they have done so it was generally something like, "he thinks he is his penis because it's (small/large) and he is obsessed with it."

Don't believe everything you see on TV or in the movies. Just because some screen writer has portrayed women having lengthy discussions on their men's penises, doesn't mean they do. Get a grip on reality.

They are more likely to talk about how he won't kiss, or touch, or ignores them. They might talk about how the man in their life never wants sex, although some women won't easily admit this because they think it reflects on their own attractiveness. We have almost as many threads (all started by men) about penis size as we do about breast size (all started by women), why not do a search and read them. Some of us are tired of both topics.

You want to know what "gets" women the most? Self focused, selfish men, who think only of themselves or only of their penises.

[Guest]

i think most women would be happy if a guy had a average sized penis

[ilovhr]

a woman has a better shot at climaxing during sex if the walls of her vaginal canal are stimulated. A study found that penis length doesn’t help accomplish this—girth does. Make him feel girthier by keeping your legs together during sex. It creates more friction.

[Mr. Inquisitive]

From what I have heard come up in conversations amongst women, a large penis tends to be A) bragging rights when they are discussing with their friends ("You would never believe how big Tom is"), B) a pleasant surprise when first seeing a guys member ("Hello there big boy"), C) an preference for women who are size queens, similar to boob men, *** men, leg men or D) a way to insult a guy who they had a nasty falling out with (I know one girl that some how made her rounds with a few of my friends, each "relationship" ending a little sour and she told the second guy that guy #1 was small, told guy #3 that #2 and #1 were small etc.

Also it seems that women in relationships are more concerned with an emotional connection, rendering penis size inconsequential, where as a women who is "playing the field" may be more interested in physical attributes.

I also wonder how realistic some of these numbers are. Alot of the reports from doctors involve a realtively small sample size (no pun intended). I'm also suspicious as to how many men/women actually have pulled out the ole tape measure or ruler and taken an accurate measurement, and how many eyeball it and take a wild guess.

Men in particular should treat their penis and a ruler similar to how many women treat a scale and avoid it at all costs. Most guys if they meassured out to 10", would be upset they aren't 11". Just be happy with what you have.

[Troop]

I keep reading about how size doesn't matter, but it doesn't seem like any women are ever in a current relationship with anyone who is actually small, as in less than 6". Is there anyone here that is in a CURRENT relationship, NOT a prior one, with someone who is less than average?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I'm pretty sure that Women were born, to accomodate "any size" as far as the depth, width of her vagina goes and I am pretty sure the perfect fit, is two people who have bonded, it's the chemistry, desire and love that makes it fit perfectly....

Sex is sex... Wham bam thank you mam, any size, is just a bird in the hole, or the hole of a bird, or something like that...

CW