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  • jns
    Assistant Admin
    • Mar 2010
    • 8398

    Originally posted by txgal2010
    I totally understand this except this has happened to me as I am approaching my 40th birthday. I can have orgasms repeatedly and want them constantly. It is a nice surprise after feeling shut down and tired for so many years (like TEN!) but my body feels like it is in overdrive. It is very distracting. The orgasms are even higher quality and still almost IMMEDIATELY after I can go again and again. I understand that if you aren't going thru this that you would think that it just wasn't a fully satisfying orgasm... not true. They are better than ever. My husband was DELIGHTED at first but I think now he is a little scared! I can't find anything about this online? It's a little crazy.
    Some birth control pills affect the libido by lowering it. Do you want your libido to match your husbands? What is his comfort level, how many times a week, for how long and for how many orgasms each? What was it prior to your sex drive going into over gear? He may have been conditioned to lower numbers by your former self.

    Personally, I would take it as a challenge to find out how far you can go using my hands. I would either end up with an answer or carpal tunnel syndrome. Of course great care would have to be taken to keep your privates from getting sore and therefore not making a valid test. Does your husband like challenges like this?

    BTW, a truly marathon session like that should be good for dieting as there is little time to eat anything with calories.
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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    • JaneC09
      Member
      • Aug 2010
      • 28

      I used to have the same problem. I'd be horny all the time. I'd find it impossible to sleep (literally sleep) next to another girl, because I would CONSTANTLY want to touch them and continue and never get any sleep. I think the best thing is just self-control. Calm down after you're done, do whatever you need to do, meditate, whatever. And just try to forget about it if your man has had enough.

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