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  • pitadude
    Junior Member
    • Aug 2010
    • 1

    Husband needs advice - please

    My wife and I have been together faithfully for 30 years. Our sex life has slowed down quite a bit, she says she’s tired and I understand that but I feel she may be in a rut and bored sexually. I have hinted to her about spicing up our sex life and about sharing our bed.
    She loves it when I lick and suck both her nipples at the same time. I have asked her if she had ever thought about having two people sucking her boobs at the same time...she usually avoids the question. A few times she had made comments that lead me to believe she has thought about it. Things like, “do you really think it would stop with just the boobs?" We've talked about other people who had threesomes and she asked me wouldn't I be afraid she might enjoy it to much.
    One day when we were in bed I tied her arms to the bed, loosely so she could get out if she wanted to and blindfolded her. After a little playing around I told her I had a surprise for her, I went over to the closet and opened the door. I could see a concerned look on her face, I went and touched her breast with the back of my hand and gently scratched them with my nails, something I don't normally do, I could feel her nervously shivering. As I continued to touch her she became to relax a little bit then I removed the blindfold and when she saw it was just me she smiled. After wards she said I didn't know who might have been coming out of there.
    She will never say it but I think she wants to experience a threesome. I'm not sure if I want too. Any advice.
    In cases you’re wondering why I would want to share my wife with another person. Well I love my wife more then anything, including myself, and I believe this experience would take her to another level of pleasure and bring her out of her rut. I know I would get jealous but if it makes her happy I’d probably do it. I could handle this more then her cheating on me.
    My life goal is to totally please my wife. I know it sounds corny but I get off making my wife happy
  • Fatin
    Senior Member
    • Feb 2009
    • 171

    Well if you won't be jealous and you are ok with with .. I don't see why not

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    • LanaBear
      Veteran Member
      • Jul 2009
      • 8373

      What makes you think she wants a threesome? If she hasn't said it, just curious as to why you think that?

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      • jns
        Assistant Admin
        • Mar 2010
        • 8398

        Sometimes doing something that is far from what you normally do is very exciting, because of the unknown and danger. But it could also be opening Pandora's Box. Determine if the reward is worth the risk for both of you. There are other spicing up options that doesn't bring a third party into the mix.
        I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
        ...
        Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

        From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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        • Larry
          Member
          • Mar 2009
          • 18

          My wife and I have been married for 33 years and I have been sharing my wife with the same friend for the last 10 years.

          As long as I can remember I have never wished for more sex, my sex drive is very low, most of the time I could take or leave it, now my wife is just the opposite. That’s how we got started having MFM threesome. We were lucky to have a close friend that was willing to help us experience with our first threesome. Our first MFM threesome worked out so well, and we all enjoyed it so much that we all decided to continue having them.

          For us it keeps getting better in and out of the bedroom.

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          • Fallen1
            Veteran Member
            • Oct 2007
            • 1937

            Old thread. O/P has not been back to respond.

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            There is a method to my madness ........ I just haven't found it yet.

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