[WildChild]

As I understand it BDSM is usually pretty controlled. Safe words, defininte limits. This is just abuse, yoy may be consenting but it is dangerous.

[angel wings]

my first thoughs were the same as dr mansview..........and not just physically or sexually abused but even verbally.......i like being dominated also because for some strange reason its makes me feel, i wish i could explain it better...........i was made to feel worthless as a child and was verbally abused alot by my father and sometimes physically, he wasnt exactly a man who knew how to show love, he also used to beat my mother.......it seems to me that you just want to feel something even if that something is pain.............but its not a good thing