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  • cheshire_cat1
    Junior Member
    • Aug 2010
    • 1

    Can't get enough!!!

    So, I have been with my new boyfriend for 2 months now and our sex life is great amazing he's the best Ive had. We usually have sex about four times a day and I have anywhere from 1 to 2 orgasms each time. Sometimes though when I go home I still masturbate cause I just feel so horny all the time now, I don't know if it's cause we have sex so often? I don't know but I don't really know if this is normal. I feel like he would be offended if I told him that I still do it. Even though its not him at all I'm totally satisfied. I was just wondering if anyone else experiences this or if I'm alone on this one...?
  • WildChild
    Banned
    • Sep 2008
    • 14142

    I find the more I get, the more I want. Lately not getting any at all and still want it so maybe that theory doesn't work.

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    • Butterflylily
      Member
      • Aug 2010
      • 61

      Its normal dont worry ^^, im sure he masturbates too when he misses you and stuff.
      Try other things and be creative when having sex with him, im sure once your beat you wont wanna masturbate anymore XD of course until the next day you see him again ^_~

      Dont freak out, you just have a really High Sex Drive etc,
      so its not bad your doing this but it is Bad if you masturbate having him like next door or something cause it can make him feel like rejected and Un-Attractiv etc, how would you feel if he rather masturbate than just ask you for oral or something?


      So if your masturbating when hes NOT THERE... then its ok ^__^
      but if you HAVE him (Right there or like only Minutes away from you) then why masturbated? :P silly ^__^
      Give him a call or something its always best to be with someone than masturbate alone, althought dont feel guilty cause...

      everyone once in there lives likes to pleasure themselves (Single or Not) i mean its like they miss there own Sexuality and some people masturbate and feel sexy or like to Explore themselves and discover new Sensitive Spots etc and so so yeah just talk things out.

      Remember everyones Different hehe

      Tell him about this, he should understand its not him, everything will be ok there always has to be Comunication in Everything remember that, I Learned from my mom XD, anyway its normal ^_~

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      • Guest

        A lot of people wouldn't mind having your problem! sounds like a lot of fun!

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        • lime_lemur
          Senior Member
          • Jul 2007
          • 132

          I think it's true that the more you get it the more you want it... my boyfriend and I rarely have the time, so we got used to not doing it very often, and we're okay with that, but there was a time when we did it on more of a daily basis and we were okay with that too. So how do you have time for it four times a day? I feel like going to bed right after work... lol.

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          • Texasred
            Veteran Member
            • Oct 2009
            • 1216

            Originally posted by cheshire_cat1
            So, I have been with my new boyfriend for 2 months now and our sex life is great amazing he's the best Ive had. We usually have sex about four times a day and I have anywhere from 1 to 2 orgasms each time. Sometimes though when I go home I still masturbate cause I just feel so horny all the time now, I don't know if it's cause we have sex so often? I don't know but I don't really know if this is normal. I feel like he would be offended if I told him that I still do it. Even though its not him at all I'm totally satisfied. I was just wondering if anyone else experiences this or if I'm alone on this one...?
            It's normal! Lots of folks find that the more you have sex, the more you want it.
            And I doubt your bf would be offended to learn you masturbate when he's not there - in fact, he would very likely be turned-on if he thought you were thinking of him when you did it!

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            • WildChild
              Banned
              • Sep 2008
              • 14142

              As some time passes and the newness wears off a bit, start working more on intimacy, connection and quality of experience.

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              • Texasred
                Veteran Member
                • Oct 2009
                • 1216

                Originally posted by WildChild
                As some time passes and the newness wears off...
                Or wears out!
                LOL!

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