[thewaiting]

I'm new to this forum, haha, so I hope this isn't too straight-forward >.<

Whenever I have any sort of penetration, be it fingering, penis, whatever, [I've only had penal penetration once, not even a huge amount of time] it hurts a little bit, yes, but there's a more present feeling of what I can't find another way to describe than as airy. Like there's air pockets or something deeper in. It's terribly uncomfortable, and I can't stand being penetrated, even with something as small as a finger. It's embarrassing and I would love to know what this is, and what I can do to fix it. I would like to have sex in the near future, and it is getting in the way.

[geedee]

Try masturbating......... it might help you through it. I'm sorry

[4all2c]

Actually masterbation is not a bad idea, however, what you should use during any sort of penentration as a good quality lubricant. You vagina is like a vessle and as it is penetrated air is pushed in, it needs to escape but because of your newness to sex, it is difficult for the air to escape because its tight. The lubrcant should make the air pass by what ever is penetrating you. There is only one downside to this called farts, it too will pass though

[geedee]

I'll second the lubrication....... that may be the issue Good luck sweetie

[thewaiting]

Well, I do masturbate quite often, just not in a penetrating sort of way...I might try that, see how that goes. And as for lubrication, I've been told by every guy I've been with I have no problems in that area...>.<
But thank you for the suggestions, girls!