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  • JaneC09
    Member
    • Aug 2010
    • 28

    I can't cum without wearing gloves

    I've had a glove fetish for as long as I can remember. Everytime I masturbate, I wear gloves (whether it be satin, leather or latex). My partner happens to like wearing gloves too, so both of us wear gloves everytime we have sex. When I was younger, I could still masturbate without wearing gloves, but lately I've tried without them, and I can't orgasm. My bare fingers just don't do anything, but once I put the gloves on, it feels great. I'm okay with this fetish, but I do weird that I need gloves in order to have a satisfying orgasm.

    BTW, I am not a germaphobe or anything like that, I just love gloves.
  • CHANDLERS WISH
    • Mar 2008
    • 22440

    Habit..

    Anything that is habitual is hard to break..

    Both you and your partner are okay with gloves, and your okay with the fetish.

    The only way to change it, is mindset that you can orgasm with your bare fingers, it's another touch, type and continue telling yourself that and trying..

    Our minds are powerful and what you believe is what it is..

    CW
    PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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    • Hopeless Dork
      Veteran Member
      • Dec 2008
      • 4255

      Its not all that typical for women to fetish an object like latex or feet or things like that... for some reason that seems to affect men more but I don't see why it couldn't also a effect a woman... that being the case that sounds like what this is ... a fetish.

      You are probably capable of orgasms without them physically... however your mind is so distracted by the fetish that since you feel you need them to cum, you do. Theres nothing wrong with it if you don't mind wearing gloves forever or having your partners always wear gloves but if you'd like to shake it up and not have to have that... you'll need to start phasing them out and reconditioning yourself to more varied stimulus.

      Cut out masturbation all together for a little bit and still try to become aroused... read things, think about things, look at things that stimulate you, but don't attempt to achieve an orgasm. Simply keep yourself aroused, albeit a bit frustrated.. until you cant take it anymore and need a release... your body may want to feel an orgasm so bad it won't care about the gloves.

      Lather rinse repeat the process til you are able to get over that mental block of thinking gloves = orgasm.
      Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.

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      • JaneC09
        Member
        • Aug 2010
        • 28

        Well, while I do think I should phase them out, I really don't want to give up the gloves. I love them, they feel so good. And when my girlfriend wears gloves, I just get so excited. That being said, it has been weird in the past having to tell people I was dating that I needed to wear gloves during sex. However, if this really isn't a problem, or isn't too weird, I'd just rather live with my glove fetish.

        That being said, maybe I will try cutting out masturbation and eventually cumming without the gloves.

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        • WildChild
          Banned
          • Sep 2008
          • 14142

          Can't hurt to experiment and see if you can expand your horizons a bit

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          • jns
            Assistant Admin
            • Mar 2010
            • 8398

            Originally posted by JaneC09
            I've had a glove fetish for as long as I can remember. Everytime I masturbate, I wear gloves (whether it be satin, leather or latex). My partner happens to like wearing gloves too, so both of us wear gloves everytime we have sex. When I was younger, I could still masturbate without wearing gloves, but lately I've tried without them, and I can't orgasm. My bare fingers just don't do anything, but once I put the gloves on, it feels great. I'm okay with this fetish, but I do weird that I need gloves in order to have a satisfying orgasm.

            BTW, I am not a germaphobe or anything like that, I just love gloves.
            Sounds like a harmless fetish to me. Don't worry about it.
            I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
            ...
            Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

            From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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            • JaneC09
              Member
              • Aug 2010
              • 28

              Have you ever had sex or masturbated with gloves on?

              If so what did you think of it? What kind of gloves were they?
              If not, I'd recommend giving it a try, although some people don't like it, but some do. And of course if you do try it, write down your experience here.
              I've been wearing gloves to masturbate for as long as I can remember. I also love to have sex with them on, and having my partner wear gloves as well. There is something so sensual about wearing them that's hard to describe.
              Last edited by LanaBear; 09-28-2010, 09:42 AM. Reason: Mod combined with your existing 'glove' thread.

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              • loveglove71
                Junior Member
                • Nov 2010
                • 2

                Hi again, Jane XO two types of gloves I love to use for masterbating are aloe vera latex gloves by medline you can purchase at any CVS store about $9.00 for 40 (20pr) they have have a slight texture for grip so I turn them inside out then lube them up so the aloe is you know where lol. Then the real favorites are called Black Satin from Sally Beauty I get them as tight small thats the key for better sensation they go for $5.00 for 2pr and they go past the wrist. so check them out they are both so smooth I've actually been able to masterbate without lube. Hope I chat to you soon XO take care!

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                • evaone
                  Member
                  • Sep 2010
                  • 30

                  its like mind over matter. habitual acts maybe.

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                  • Texasred
                    Veteran Member
                    • Oct 2009
                    • 1216

                    Good thing you're not into shoes, I guess!

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