[tidytidy]

Hello everybody,

I've been going out with my boyfriend for a while now and he wants to ejaculate inside me. I am on birth control pills and we have been for check ups together but I don't like the idea of the mess leaking out (mm nice imagery!) and the fact that he thought it would be "nasty" to go down on me after going to town on me when he takes less time to orgasm than me......

So a few questions,

How do you make the mess more bearable?

How should I prepare for it / What should I expect?

Is it really worth it / a pleasurable experience?

Many thanks,
Tidy

[WildChild]

It is totally worth it. I love the "mess". I'm very much a sensualist and love to stand up and have it running down my leg and the feel of that extra wetness. All you have to do is go to the bathroom and rinse a little. What goes up will come down.

[Allie788]

I personally love when my boyfriend cums inside me, as for the mess afterward I don't mind it. Actually it turns me on when I get up from the bed and it leaks out of me.

[Texinator]

the fact that he thought it would be "nasty" to go down on me after going to town on me

So have him go down on you first.

[LanaBear]

Worth it, love it, wouldn't have it any other way, well, unless it was on me, that works for me too.

[Guest]

Nooooo, no, I hate it when he cums in me, I have him pull out and cum in my mouth, I hate cleaning that stuff up or have it leaking back out of me or down my leg, I find it disgusting..

[jenn89]

How do you make the mess more bearable?
The mess isn't as horrible as all that . . . and, after all, during lovemaking, some semen is going to be spilled. :-) To handle the immediate mess, we keep some wash cloths next to the bed--they work better than kleenex, which can shred too easily. when my fiance pulls out at the end of intercourse, we hold a washcloth there to catch any semen that comes out with him. I then will use another washcloth to wipe myself, and I will often hold it there as I get up to go to the bathroom. I will be a little drippy the next day but I just make sure to have a supply of liners on hand. :-)

How should I prepare for it / What should I expect?
As for preparing, see above, and make sure you haven't missed any pills.

As to what to expect: I think it's odd that ejaculation inside should make sex that much messier, since after all the woman usually gets very wet anyway, but it does. Depending on your position, there might not be much (or any) mess until he pulls out afterward, such as when he is on top, but some of the semen might gush out as he pulls out. If you're on top, gravity might make it begin to run out even while he is still inside you. and you might be drippy and wetter than usual the next morning even tough a lot of it will leak out immediately after sex. If you're worried about leaving or sleeping in a wet spot, you could put a towel under you on the bed.

Is it really worth it / a pleasurable experience?
YES, it is a VERY pleasurable experience. Neither my fiance nor I had ever experienced it with anyone else, and when i went on the pill and he quit using condoms it was just amazing for both of us. he gets a LOT more sensation without condoms, and it is a huge thrill for him to be able to stay inside me during his orgasm. For me, i don't actually feel his ejaculation, but I do feel his penis pulsing/throbbing as he ejaculates, which is a big emotional turn-on for me--I like knowing I have excited him to the point of orgasm, it is a big ego trip for me ;-). And it makes us both feel very loving connected to each other emotionally when he ejaculates in me. it is very much worth a little messiness. :-)

HTH.

[lizzardb63]

I dont think it just "runs" out. I mean yes some comes out, but not like pouring out. I usually just throw some undies on and head to the bathroom. Most comes out when I go pee and there is no mess, maybe just a little wetness in my undies, but that can be wiped off with toilet paper. I love when he comes in me. Just proves there is nothing between us at all..except obviously birth control. I find it exciting.

[sallywi2003]

There is nothing like my BF cumming inside my vagina. I love the feel of his penis twitching as he shoots his loaod. The cum is nice and warm and when we are done it running down my leg makes me even more horny. It is a fantastic experience.

[Agony_Aunt]

ask yourself the question of: "If in the middle of sex, and you are about to cum and your BF pulls out because he doesn't want to be inside you while you are having an orgasm?"
I think if that happened, it wouldn't be as good.
And I also think that if he cums inside you it makes it all much more emotional.
I think if you change your attitude towards it and just enjoy and love the feeling and emotion between you and your partner during sex, it will be better, in all aspects.