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  • Beautifulbutterfly
    Junior Member
    • Sep 2010
    • 2

    Question about fingering.


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    When I finger myself I don't feel anything?? It doesn't hurt but it doesn't feel good either...I'm so confused. I'm I doing something wrong??
    Last edited by Alison H.; 04-02-2021, 12:38 PM.
  • Mes T
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2009
    • 2678

    Where are you fingering yourself, inside the vagina or on the clitoris? Many women prefer clitoral stimulation to anything inside. If you've never had an orgasm before it can take a while to learn how to do it.

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    • Beautifulbutterfly
      Junior Member
      • Sep 2010
      • 2

      Inside...

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      • Mes T
        Veteran Member
        • Oct 2009
        • 2678

        I don't think anything's wrong with you, it's common not to feel much inside. Most nerve endings are concentrated on the outside, so that's where you should focus.

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        • kristalyn_04
          Veteran Member
          • Oct 2009
          • 2164

          The vagina itself doesn't have many nerve endings, some more or less than others. When something is in there most women feel the "fullness" of it and have sensations around their g-spot, but not always. For you, maybe just a finger doesn't give you enough sensation to feel anything. Maybe try two or more fingers, or a toy?

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          • WildChild
            Banned
            • Sep 2008
            • 14142

            I don't get much out of it if I finger myself but if the right man does it, it's heaven. Guess it's all in the mind?

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            • rozzierox91
              Member
              • Sep 2010
              • 11

              I don't feel much out of doing it myself either. I have considered that maybe my fingers just can't reach my g-spot and especially at the angle they are. My bf get's it in minutes but I never can. It is pleasing to masturbate if your partner is watching. That can help.

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              • btifulfrefly08
                Member
                • Sep 2010
                • 31

                some girls also have an issue fingering their own selves. I don't really like to finger myself, but I can orgasm from it just fine if I do it, but when my bf does it it's an immediate orgasm for me. If you are wanting to finger yourself you should make sure you're horny enough and rub you clit a little bit (that always helps).

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                • Guest

                  Your g-spot is about 3 inches inside you on the top of your vagina, it's not really a spot, more like a patch, feel around in there you'll find it..

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