[amberl82]

I want to try anal sex with my bf but he keeps telling me that it's gonna hurt and wouldnt do it how can i get him to????

[Guest]

Ha, you want it and he won't give it to you ?? Well thats one for the books..

Have him read this..

For it to be done properly you have to get her ready for it, help her to relax first if it's her first time she will be apprehensive about it and think it's just going to hurt, it doesn't have to hurt much at all, it will a little at first, but that will pass.

A good way to get her butt hole to relax is by licking it and sticking your tongue in, you will actually feel her start to open up to your tongue, lube her up and use your finger on her, let her get used to the feeling of something inside there, when she feels a little open you can start to put your penis in, it's probably best if you have her bent over so you can spread her butt cheeks apart, slowly slid your penis in past her outside ring at that point her natural instincts will tell her to clamp shut, she can't do that or it's gonna hurt her, she has to be active in this too, she has to start to push out like she's trying to take a poop, that will open her rectum up to you so you can slid inside her.

Once your in her hold still before pumping away, let her rectum muscles adjust to your penis in there before you start moving in and out, once she's comfortable you can start on her, after a minute or so she should start to enjoy the full feeling she has.. Don't worry, you can get in there and she can take it, it's just a matter of time..

Have fun..

[amberl82]

he has done it to other girls but is apprehensive on doing it to me he tells me its because they wanted it well i want it to i would like to experience it

[Texinator]

Lots of anal threads around here. Check this one out:

https://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/29032-i-cant-get-into-anal-there-something-im-missing.html

[masterchief]

For some guys at first, it is a "yuck, why would I want to put it there?". I think it's something you think about as you get older.

He may have had a bad experience in the past, he may feel you're trying too hard or only offering it to please him, he may not like it. You could try asking him

[geedee]

For some guys at first, it is a "yuck, why would I want to put it there?". I think it's something you think about as you get older.

He may have had a bad experience in the past, he may feel you're trying too hard or only offering it to please him, he may not like it. You could try asking him

Yup I totally agree with this.......... ask him about it.

[Running_Elk]

Anal sex does frequently hurt. I have literally been "ripped" by a rough ex. Most guys I have met push their girlfriends for it. I have only successfully done it once.

It, for me, took practice and gradual stretching using dildos or buttplugs. The only way it will be pleasurable/tolerable/painless will be if you and your man have a lot of trust and respect for each other and take it slowly.

Be lucky that he cares so much for your well being -- many guys are very pushy.

[Guest]

if you would like anal, tell him that you like it.