[CosmoBunni]

Okay so i've been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years now on and off. The most recent break-up was 8 months ago, and since then we've gotten back together. The reasoning for breaking up the last time was because he never ever wanted to have sex or be intimate. It got really frustrating and depressing on my part. I tried everything from pushing it on him to not asking at all, and that only ending up in huge fights or 3 months without sex. When i ask him what his problem is he just tells me, " nothing, im just lazy". I dont know what else to do. Recentely, the problem is re-occuring! We no longer live together this time around, so when i do see him i obv expect to want to have sex and he still puts up a fight over it. Can anyone offer me some help please!!! Should i just forget about it or should i break up with him and move on?

[mr.mansview]

seems obvious to me..look somewhere else..he admits he is lazy and does not want sex..you think 4 or 5 years later things will get better?..i doubt it..

btw..welcome fellow canuck to the site

[CosmoBunni]

Thanks

[Drangel254]

Thanks

It's weird seeing women like this when I want this from my girl. Seems like u can't have te cake and eat it 2.

[lonestar]

Find someone who wants to do you. You will not be happy if you committ to a long term with this guy- this is a clear sign that he has not really changed. He just figures you'll keep taking him back and this will become routine. Think about marrying this guy... what kind of a father would he be? Would he even be one? Or would he be the dad that sits in his armchair watching the game while wifey does everything. Don't know about you, but that does not sound like fun to me. Don't "forget" about anything- if more sex would make you happy, then go find someone who will have nooo problem fulfilling that need.

That "lazy" response would probably get a kick out the door from me. How's that for lazy?

(and Drangel- yes you can. You can even have seconds....)

[stressed]

It seems like this time you should break up for good. He won't change and he doesn't want to either.

[CosmoBunni]

Thanks Everyone! I'm happy to report i've recently dumped this guy and had no trouble finding one that can make me happy! Not in a relationship with thiss new guy but im certainly happy! I really appreciate everyones input it really and truley does help! And Drangel i know its so weird to hear a girl complaining about not enough sex, felt even weirder for me having to ask for it all the time!