[liminal]

Usually girls (in my experience) will say that they aren't very sympathetic to a guy and his quest to get laid.

Okay, that is okay. But do women basically believe that one of the main reasons a guy is in a relationship with a woman is to have sex?

[Guest]

No if all he wanted was sex he could go out and get a prostitute..

[foxdana]

No, there are much easier ways to get sex. Some women don't want a relationship, so they would be a place to start.

[x.st.angel.x]

I think it depends on the guy. I know some guys who get into relationships for sex only and i know others who dont

[LittleLily]

I guess we are horny as guys too. But I agreed that men usually think about sex when they said they want a relationship.

[stressed]

No, I don't believe that men want a relationship because they want sex. They can find sex without being in a relationship as there are many women who only want sex without commitment. It's very easy to find sex in our days. Men who want a relationship want a connection and something more than sex.

Men wanting sex 24/7 is only a myth.

[liminal]

Okay, I am just not sure how I am supposed to feel. If some women aren't sympathetic to a man's desire to ever have sex.... then maybe they don't think sex isn't important at all? (or they just don't think uncommitted sex is important at all EVEN if the he feels he has no likelihood of being in a meaningful committed relationship) But if its expected of me to act like sex is important to have, then how can I be myself? I would be very cool with the idea of someone being totally unsympathetic toward a guy wanting to have sex but only if it was because she believed that it simply wasn't important for a guy to ever have sex. (or not important at all to never have sex outside a committed relationship despite the fact that that might never happen to that person)

But I guess not all women think that we want a relationship even partially for sex...but only because men supposedly have other options for uncommitted sex freely available to them? Because if that was the reason itself then you would have to say that men want a relationship partially for sex but not entirely.

I mean do women think that their are many men who wouldn't think that uncommitted sex was very important to them if they felt they no chance of finding a committed relationship?

[rcoreyus]

The problem is that you can't generalize to 3 billion people (men or women). Asking what "men want" or "women think" doesn't get you very far. The variation is much too big.

[liminal]

The problem is that you can't generalize to 3 billion people (men or women). Asking what "men want" or "women think" doesn't get you very far. The variation is much too big.

I did a survey where 2/3rds of women on that site said they had no sympathy for a guy unable to have sex. I also did a survey on the same site and found that 2/3rds of women said they would be willing to have a relationship with a man who was physically unable to have sex.

So I can't tell really why they are that way. Why would they be unsympathetic? For the same reason they would be able to be with a guy who can't have sex?

[WildChild]

Probably there are dozens of reasons for both kinds of responses. You just can't generalize this stuff. The simple fact that some women will be fine with it and some won't and many will have situations that are exceptions.

We've discussed this on other threads, if you educate yourself, you could very well have a number of women who would be happy to be with you. Quit analysing a go get Mars and Venus and good book on cunnlingous!