[baja]

A woman shouldn't be interested in a guy just after sex since that would merely objectify her and leave her feeling used. And as mentioned above, if guys were only interested in sex they wouldn't go through all that it takes to create and grow a relationship much less get married...

[Allie602]

Sound weird - 75% of the woman would have a relationship with a man with no possibility of sex?? How old were the women, 80.

Unsympathetic towards males need for sex - how did you ask the question and again what was the demographics of the respondents.

[Allie602]

A woman shouldn't be interested in a guy just after sex since that would merely objectify her and leave her feeling used. And as mentioned above, if guys were only interested in sex they wouldn't go through all that it takes to create and grow a relationship much less get married...

Women sometimes want only sex too at times and nothing else. I have heard men complain about being used and meeting women who are not interested in a any thing serious! It also depends on age and subculture, urban, east, west midwest, south. So don't believe every thing you read.

[liminal]

Sound weird - 75% of the woman would have a relationship with a man with no possibility of sex?? How old were the women, 80.

Unsympathetic towards males need for sex - how did you ask the question and again what was the demographics of the respondents.

Do you feel sympathetic for somebody who can not have sex?

Because their circumstances, such as chronic social ineptness, prevent them from having that experience?

I know I've asked this question before, but the way I worded it was kind of awkward so I am not sure if it was well understood.

Why or why not?

Please explain.

The question was toward people who had Aspergers syndrome. In other words people who don't have much social skills.

[liminal]

Probably there are dozens of reasons for both kinds of responses. You just can't generalize this stuff. The simple fact that some women will be fine with it and some won't and many will have situations that are exceptions.

We've discussed this on other threads, if you educate yourself, you could very well have a number of women who would be happy to be with you. Quit analysing a go get Mars and Venus and good book on cunnlingous!

Okay, I will the book.

[AZ Guy]

Women sometimes want only sex too at times and nothing else. I have heard men complain about being used and meeting women who are not interested in a any thing serious! It also depends on age and subculture, urban, east, west midwest, south. So don't believe every thing you read.

Yeah, that happened to me recently. I was really looking forward to a relationship with this gal and turns out she was just looking for some physical fullfilment for awhile. After it ended I was confused....I just wish she would've told me that.....

[ItsASecret]

The question was toward people who had Aspergers syndrome. In other words people who don't have much social skills.

Not sure what you mean by this in regards to sex. There are individuals with Aspergers that do just fine in life...they also have a fully functioning penis so they can have sex if they so choose to. I have general anti-social tendencies myself so one can say I do not have much social skills but that does not affect my ability to engage in sexual activity.

[Allie602]

Seriously, I think you have personal concerns that you are asking about in an indirect way. What are your concerns? It's better to come out and say explicitly so the discussion will be more informative so what's up?

BTW, people with Aspergers have a range of abilities. Some are higher functioning, all have the ability to form intimate relationships some need coaching.

[CharlesV]

Men need love as well as sex too you know.