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  • Butterflylily
    Member
    • Aug 2010
    • 61

    Shy Boy

    This isnt my problem, im asking in position from my sister, she has a Boyfriend and shes been having a Problem with him.

    You see his very shy and stuff, I dont think its a low libido cause they get very sexual at times and she told me shes even seen him had 4 orgasm right infront of her O_O idk if shes lying but lol, i though men only had one and thats it, well anyway.


    She was wondering if anyone here can give her some tips etc, hes shy but he doesnt have that Low libido thing, he actually wants sex as much as My sister does, but he can never get it out to ask her directly or touch her or anything like that, and lol shes next to me freaking out right now XD haha so i hope you can help her out, she has some kind of sleep over with him and she wants advice to finally make something happened.


    Any Advice ladies and gents?
  • CHANDLERS WISH
    • Mar 2008
    • 22440

    So he wants it, but doesn't instigate it? So she thinks she's going to miss out this weekend is that what you are trying to say? "Finally make something happen", yet he's had 4 orgasms in front of her, via masterbation they haven't had sex yet?

    Haha, sorry your confusing us, .... If they haven't had sex yet, and he says he wants it and doesn't maybe he hasn't had sex yet?

    And, a female can instigate sex these days, start the ball rolling so to speak

    May be good if you explain or she explain a little more, whether they have had sex at all, etc.
    PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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    • masterchief
      Member
      • Sep 2010
      • 41

      Well, the classic british line is "fancy a shag?", but that may be seen as being a bit forward.

      It's confusing that she's seen him orgasm in front of her (4 times!!!) yet he's too shy to ask anything? and how do you know he wants as much as she does with this level of shyness.

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      • jns
        Assistant Admin
        • Mar 2010
        • 8398

        Maybe he doesn't know tab A fits in slot B. You said they get very sexual at times. What does that mean? Is he possibly afraid of hurting her?
        I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
        ...
        Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

        From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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        • AZ Guy
          Member
          • Sep 2010
          • 20

          Originally posted by Butterflylily
          i though men only had one and thats it,
          Sorta off topic; but where did you hear that? I won't go into detail, but many guys (well, me at least) have no problem going, and going, and going

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          • LittleLily
            Member
            • Sep 2010
            • 18

            Your sister can start it first, guy would never refuse!
            Don't worry, it will happened very quick! for those who had same experienced should know

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            • Guest

              Well, if she wants sex, and she is of consenting age, she could wear skimpy clothing when with him alone. Perhaps a negligee' with no underwear on underneath. This is a sure-fire way for a boy to get excited.

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