Be patient with men like me. It's not a disorder (we aren't talking 4 hours here) and there is Nothing wrong with you or how you feel or how you are moving etc. I'm not 16 anymore and I've trained myself to be this way lol. My gf sometimes gets frustrated and thinks she is doing something wrong. I try to tell her "babe, there are tons of woman out there with the opposite problem...minute men". -She didn't seem to mind the 45-90 minute sessions in the beginning lol. We average about 15 minutes now. -I guess I don't have a question here....I'm just saying....If you are in a similar situation, just enjoy it. There is Nothing wrong with what you're doing or how you feel;-)
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Intercorse over 15 minutes can tend to get annoying... -
My boyfriend lasts long too, but after so long I get sore because he is rather large too. Sometimes I will get so sore I can't have sex the next day.Comment
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Oh, I hear ya. I'm just saying, it's better than a minute or two. (or less lol). But do y'all get offended if we can't finish? Sometimes I'm just too tired or maybe stressed or maybe one too many shots haha.Comment
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Nah I wouldn't be offended... I can't always finish every time either for whatever reason, and explain that it's not personal... so why should I be offended if he couldn't finish sometimes? It's not a sign of inadequacy as many people seem to think, it just comes down to honesty and good communication (which obviously would be tough to do if you're drunk lol... go easy on the alcohol).
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15 mins doesn't sound overly long. Do you mix it up a bit? Different posistions and such?Comment
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Well no 15 minutes isnt long, but 60 is for me at least...lol and yes it is better than a minute or less man. If you don't cum, i might feel like maybe I didn't satisfy you but let it roll off my back. As long as it doesn't happen often.Comment
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well, a 15 min BJ can be quite tiring on your mouth and jaw.Comment
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Funny you should mention that kristalyn, that is when I tend to take the longest. I don't want to place blame but but my gf stops and starts a lot hence your tired mouth and jaw comment. I don't know that she could build her endurance with That. I tell her that if she would only keep a good pace, stroke, etc and not stop that I could finish in a couple of minutes. I KNOW I could cause other women have made me. But I can't exactly put it to her like that now can I? hahaComment
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