[Risch]

I don't know why I would write this for all to see, but I can't remember when was the last time I was so hrny. There is no other word to describe it better. I want to have a man breathing heavily in my neck, devouring my lips and tongue, his eyes as hungry for me as everything else of me is for him... And i haven't even read anything steamy or watched anything remotely romantic for quite a while. And almost any man would do right now... not good. And no, I'm not desperate with my divorce from my husband going on... I'm just desiring and CRAVING some steamy attention... I can't focus on anything else... Anybody out there feel that lately? How do you get over it without grabbing the first seemingly decent guy into an alley..???

[Guest]

Cold shower

[foxdana]

DIY!!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Ahhh,, with Divorce comes a new beginning, your burning, yearing for it, you've probably had a shirtful few years yes? No desire but then you know you have it in you and want it so much anyone will do..

Noooooooo, well you can use a condom Nothing wrong with finding yourself all over again having missed out, been there done that I was a Cougar as well, well all by 7 years and until I felt it wasn't what I wanted anymore but it way set me on my path for the future... Now in a committed relationship, he's moving in next week, 9 months later and I'm blessed, everything in every fashion, way, i could ever imagine, i am finally in love

It's normal, i was all over the place but tried and did refrain for 2 years before being wicked, and found myself more..

Take it easy... DYI as stated, cold shower, what ever you need to do, but learn to find yourself now, what you want , who you are, and don't settle for less this time...

[Risch]

Have thought of DIY... doesn't work if you crave skin on skin, only makes it worse. And i could never understand the cold shower thing. Maybe it works for a man, doesn't do anything for me except make me cold... which, as I am feeling right now, would only make me want the skin on skin more... But thanks anyway.
I have had my fair share of flings after my first divorce, so I know I don't want that. At least not in the way I experienced it. And actually my marriage wasn't depraved at all. We used to do it at least once a day, so I'm kinda having withdrawals, you know.
I want the electricity... that turn your stomach makes if he enters a room... anyway.. and now it's raining here, which doesn't help. Guess I'm gonna have to suck it up and wait it out. The rain and my desires.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

So why did you Divorce? What are you after this time in your life, if sex was great, get that, missing it...

[Risch]

He hates my two kids from my first marriage. It's sad. We were good mates, enjoyed the same things, I watched rugby with him, he watched chick flicks with me, we had the same ideas, same ideals, very compatible in bed... but he couldn't live with my kids. He downrights refuses. I moved out, we tried again, no change. I cannot continue like this, living two lives. One with him and our baby and another with my kids at home. So I am divorcing.

[JonDoe]

Are the kids accepting of him? Are they respectful? Have you laid down the law that they must respect him? Perhaps he refuses because he does not feel respected in his/your home?

You have been married and divorced twice, each time with children, and at least as you describe the current marriage it seems perfect in every way, but one, and yet your first move is to run away in search of perfection. When will you realize that perfection simply does not exist? You have a better chance of flying with Unicorns then finding the perfection that you seek. Instead of divorce, seek family counseling; I'll bet your little darling children need it as much as you.