[lonestar]

Yes, she is being a bit selfish. If she wants it done to her, she should be willing to do the same for you. It may not be the most pleasant thing in the world to some women (the sexually insecure ones), but I love doing it because of the reaction I get from my boyfriend and personally because it turns me on to know that his hands digging into my back... yeah... I'm doing that.

[Casey715]

Talk to her about it and be firm.

Hummmm..............Agreed, don't go soft on her.

[jns]

Does being selfish regarding sex come naturally to women? My wife refuses to give me a blowjob but is more than happy for me to go down on her. Is she being selfish?

Did she used to give them and then stopped? Some people just don't like some aspects of sex. Do you have fun going down on her? If so, enjoy your fun.

[Guest]

Did she used to give them and then stopped? Some people just don't like some aspects of sex. Do you have fun going down on her? If so, enjoy your fun.

This is what i was gonna ask, if she gave you b/js in the past there must be a reason she stopped, has your diet changed ? Maybe it's the taste of your cum that is putting her off ??

[Awoman2]

Only a selfish person would not give you the same kind of pleasure you are giving her.

I think when you love someone even if you don't particularly like doing something, just knowing how much it means to the other person should be enough to make you want to try just for your love's sake. Of course I do not mean something extreme, harmful to yourself, or illegal.

But yeah, find out what the problem is. Try to reason with her and if she won't be fair, you just might have to find someone else to do it for you. Ha!

[WildChild]

Some other factors I can think of, other than change of taste, would be if you have a habit of grabbing her head when she is giving you a bj. Sometimes this really works but other times its annoying to say the least. It takes all the control or choice from the woman and makes it hard for her to stop if she needs to.

If you take a long time to cum, that can get to be a problem too.

She's the only one who can tell you what is going on.