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  • Trying Hard
    Member
    • Sep 2010
    • 48

    A tip for the base

    Some guys lose a bit of their erection (some guys more) when stopping foreplay to
    put on condoms or changing positions (I know, I know, foreplay doesn’t necessarily need to be interrupted, but it happens anyway); a way round it that I read somewhere
    (can’t remember exactly where), would be for the partner or the guy himself
    to hold the base of the penis very tightly (the part nearest to the body)
    with thumb and index finger in the manner of a penis/c0ck ring .
    That prevents the blood from leaving and the erection is maintained.
    After activity is resumed, pressure then can be relieved at the couple’s discretion.
    That pressure can also be applied at anytime during sex.
    It worked for me. Please, let me know if it worked for you.
  • foxdana
    Member
    • Sep 2010
    • 72

    Thanks for the tip!! I will let my husband know about this a give it a try! He finds it very frustrating to lose his erection while changing positions or the like, I will let you know the outcome!!!

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    • jns
      Assistant Admin
      • Mar 2010
      • 8398

      Actually, if a guy is long enough, but has ED, he can grip the base to keep blood in the penis and the head inflated while having sex. This gives him a chance to get enough sensation over a long enough time for climax.
      I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
      ...
      Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

      From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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      • Butterflylily
        Member
        • Aug 2010
        • 61

        I read many things about men, Its funny because now that you bring this up...
        Ive read people (Especially women) saying that "After a guy comes hes useless" and...well in my experiences thats soooooooooooooooooo absolutly not true, idk about you but ive seen guys have Multiple Non-Ejaculative orgasm and like 3 or 4 Ejaculating ones, after the 4 one the penis gets to tired and extremely sensitive that you cant keep going i read.


        however i read that vibrating rings, not only make a guy have orgasm (both ejaculative and non ejaculative) but it helps a guy stay hard for a long long time. And besides XD a guy doesnt need a Erection to orgasm :P but i guess the Wolrd and many many women dont understand this, but anway yeah I know what your talking about ^_____^
        Last edited by Butterflylily; 11-14-2010, 08:52 AM. Reason: fixing spelling

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        • WildChild
          Banned
          • Sep 2008
          • 14142

          Tantra has methods for nonejaculative sex. I've been talking to a freind who is a sex educator, she teaches things like how to put on a condom using your mouth. I would guess that would help keep his interest up.

          Oh and men can do kegels and they will often help with this.

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